EPISODE · Sep 8, 2022 · 1H 3M
BHE 125 - REJECTION IS POSSESSION
from Big Hormone Enneagram · host John Luckovich, Emeka Okorafor, Nancy Walter, David Gray
We’re bringing the pain to rejection types. How penetrating the other becomes the replacement for connection. — (2:08) The penetration and leverage of rejection is a possession of the other — (4:25) Riffing on what sexual 8 possession really means / all the rejection types are doing possession through their centers — (11:06) Possessing the other becomes a replacement for the connection the rejection type assumes is not on the table — (13:46) Callback to soul intercourse and how that had a parental rejection dynamic for Emeka — (16:51) Rejection types are tracking how much it matters to you / tiers of penetration — (20:36) Rejection types needing someone who can get through their wall but tending to seek out those who allow them to reinforce a possession dynamic — (25:47) An attraction can feel really strong only because it’s reinforcing the type structure’s ego agenda — (29:09) 8s are forceful because they’re expanding on potent leverage points to rewrite an experience of something — (34:24) Rejection possession dynamics in Inception and There Will Be Blood — (42:04) How rejection types can let go of the story of being a cut off fractional person — (49:03) Language around instinctual approaches differing from the point of view of the centers / sexual instinct and competition — (51:33) Rejection types redefining the game and doubling down on it until the other doesn’t feel like they’re in a full relationship — (54:58) The insecurity of frustration types in getting their needs met — (58:19) The challenges of attaching to a rejection type / the assumption of being on the same page is what ensures a disconnect continues to arise and we adapt to each other Sign up for free Fourth Way Gurdjieff talks organized by John’s group taking place on the 13th & 14th of September 7PM ET: https://gurdjieffbennett.org/joining-new-groups/ Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Discover the dark arts of enneagram typing. Watch recent typing classes on Andrew Tate, Kurt Cobain, Anjelica Huston. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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We’re bringing the pain to rejection types. How penetrating the other becomes the replacement for connection. — (2:08) The penetration and leverage of rejection is a possession of the other— (4:25) Riffing on what sexual 8 possession really means / all the rejection types are doing possession through their centers— (11:06) Possessing the other becomes a replacement for the connection the rejection type assumes is not on the table— (13:46) Callback to soul intercourse and how that had a parental rejection dynamic for Emeka— (16:51) Rejection types are tracking how much it matters to you / tiers of penetration— (20:36) Rejection types needing someone who can get through their wall but tending to seek out those who allow them to reinforce a possession dynamic— (25:47) An attraction can feel really strong only because it’s reinforcing the type structure’s ego agenda— (29:09) 8s are forceful because they’re expanding on potent leverage points to rewrite an experience of something — (34:24) Rejection possession dynamics in Inception and There Will Be Blood— (42:04) How rejection types can let go of the story of being a cut off fractional person— (49:03) Language around instinctual approaches differing from the point of view of the centers / sexual instinct and competition— (51:33) Rejection types redefining the game and doubling down on it until the other doesn’t feel like they’re in a full relationship— (54:58) The insecurity of frustration types in getting their needs met — (58:19) The challenges of attaching to a rejection type / the assumption of being on the same page is what ensures a disconnect continues to arise and we adapt to each other Sign up for free Fourth Way Gurdjieff talks organized by John’s group taking place on the 13th & 14th of September 7PM ET:https://gurdjieffbennett.org/joining-new-groups/ Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Discover the dark arts of enneagram typing.Watch recent typing classes on Andrew Tate, Kurt Cobain, Anjelica Huston. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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