BHE 127 - THE COURTNEY REJECTION EPISODE [PART II]

Picking up where we left off with Courtney and rejection. — (1:46) The protection from vulnerability and transactional nature of relationships is true for all of us / But it’s more true for rejection types — (3:24) The different flavors of separateness and intensity of the rejection types — (8:21) How John and Courtney experience rejection in relationships as frustration and attachment types — (14:21) How rejection types can redefine their self-concept in less narrow terms by sensing the automatic wall in the body — (20:20) How to distinguish the not there-ness of rejection vs the not being there of 9 — (23:20) Rejection type possession sweeps you up with intensity because it has such a small aperture of personhood — (27:38) How rejection types can work with the sensation of the wall and widen their sense of personhood — (34:34) Rejection types need to revisit vulnerable parts they have cut off in order to avoid becoming more fractional as time goes on — (41:08) Niklas’ interview with Josh and getting a 2’s perspective on rejection Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become fluent in the dark arts of the enneagram. Watch recent typing classes on 9 and 6 wings, Kurt Cobain, Courtney Love. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message