BHE 145 - SCRATCH MY SOUL::Intercourse

We’re talking about love, relationships, and sex again. — (4:34) Friendship jealousy and what causes it — (13:38) The tension between expecting too much from a romantic partner and not expecting much at all — (17:05) Western isolation puts more pressure on romantic relationships — (20:25) The need to be seen in a relationship and what it means — (24:26) All About Love by bell hooks defines love as an action to prioritize the other’s well-being — (32:06) We can only love or see an other to the degree that we can see and care for our own well-being — (38:44) Putting yourself aside for an other vs not being a doormat or codependent simp — (44:38) Self-love and knowing how to set boundaries is an important aspect of loving an other — (49:30) Learning to date and talk to the potential sex partners Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram to see types more clearly. Watch recent classes on 3 vs 6, 3 vs 9, the DJ trifix special. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message