Biblical Headship: Christlike Leadership in Marriage

Biblical headship is one of the most misunderstood teachings in Scripture. Too often, it is confused with dominance, control, or inequality. In this episode of Contending for the Word Q&A, Dave Jenkins explains what biblical headship truly is, and what it is not, by anchoring the discussion firmly in God's Word. Drawing from Ephesians 5:23–25, this episode shows that headship is defined by Christ Himself, not by culture, stereotypes, or personal preference. Biblical headship is marked by sacrificial love, humble service, gentle leadership, and faithful spiritual responsibility. This episode addresses: • Why headship is rooted in Christlike sacrifice, not authority-seeking. • How spiritual leadership differs from spiritual superiority. • Why abuse, passivity, harshness, and control distort biblical headship. • How husbands are called to lead with humility for the good of their wives and the glory of God. Biblical headship is not a burden to wield but a responsibility to bear modeled after Jesus, who gave Himself up for His church. For more from Contending for the Word Q&A, visit: https://servantsofgrace.org/contending-for-the-word-qa/