EPISODE · Jan 27, 2026 · 59 MIN
Bigorexia, GLP-1s and; The Gay Gaze: When Perfect Isn’t Enough EP 730
from Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST · host Stephen V.Rodriguez
We breakdown how some gay men are obsessed with being bigger based on a recent mini-doc "Behind the Bulk: The Hidden World of Gay Men on Steroids" The hosts share their own stories on their bodies, working out and how that has affected dating and more... “If anorexia is the terror of not being thin enough, swolexia is the terror of not being big enough,” narratively describing how these mirror anxieties function as opposite poles of the same disorder. In the gay community, these pressures can be intensified by the gay look: muscular, lean, polished, photographed — a perceived currency in social/romantic markets. Some clinicians and community members argue that muscle dysmorphia has become one of the most significant body image issues impacting gay men, almost like a parallel crisis to HIV/AIDS in its psychological and social impact. We discuss... Advice: We offer advice related to today's topic on whether or not someone should go on dates if they are struggling with body image? Hot Topic: What are some red flags guys in their 50's should look out for when going on dates? Hot Topic: It's all things "Heated Rivalry" - The show that keeps on giving... Get Steve V's new app Connect & Confidence Studio.com/stevev/connect Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Lincoln on IG: @madlincoln Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
What this episode covers
On a new TAGSPODCAST aka Talk About Gay Sex podcast Host Steve V and Co-hosts Lincoln and Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with a new Sex Talk, Hot Topics and Advice. This episode unpacks how modern beauty ideals — from muscle to medicine to media — shape how gay men see themselves and pursue connection, desire, and acceptance.
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Bigorexia, GLP-1s and; The Gay Gaze: When Perfect Isn’t Enough EP 730
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