EPISODE · Jul 29, 2021 · 47 MIN
Body Image and ENM Relationships Ep.5
from Nope! We're Not Monogamous · host Ellecia Paine
Today we're talking to Katy Alaniz, a poly friendly therapist whose focus is really on helping clients rediscover confidence, sexuality, healing from trauma, and a lot of focus on body image, eating disorder recovery, and also how all of that intersects with relationships. Katy is a cis pansexual demisexual polyamorous woman who is super passionate about treating eating disorders and body image issues. She has a badass 10 year old, a couple of cats, she loves fresh hydrangeas, and good coffee. We have the best conversation with her about her life experiences as a solo polyamorous woman, the lessons that she has learned, and the tools she shares with her clients. 💨 TLDR;2:21- Solo Polyamory6:57- Fear of Non-monogamy11:15- Transition to Polyamory15:43- Parenting and Polyamory20:44- Polyamory as a Choice24:07- Therapy Work28:15- Body Image42:56- Preventative Therapy❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note.📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia 📚 Books mentioned: ● Health at Every SizeSee more Katy!The Wakeful StateIG- @theweightytherapistFB- @thewakefulstate👀 Find Us Online - Website: https://www.elleciapaine.com/ - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/Credits- Host: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/- Executive Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/- Producer: Danny Walters. - Editor: Danny WaltersAbout UsEllecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general.Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box.Send us Fan MailSupport the show📰 Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/newsletter ❤️ Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our Patreon! http://www.patreon.com/notmonogamous 👀 Find Us Online🌍 Website: https://www.elleciapaine.com📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elleciapaine 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elleciapaine/Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar LindsteinSTIM IPI: 572 393 237
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Today we're talking to Katy Alaniz, a poly friendly therapist whose focus is really on helping clients rediscover confidence, sexuality, healing from trauma, and a lot of focus on body image, eating disorder recovery, and also how all of that intersects with relationships. Katy is a cis pansexual demisexual polyamorous woman who is super passionate about treating eating disorders and body image issues. She has a badass 10 year old, a couple of cats, she loves fresh hydrangeas, and good ...
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