Bonus Episode: What No One Tells You About Mindset + Recruiting (IG Live Replay)

You can have the skills, the highlight film, and the emails — but if your mindset isn’t right, none of it sticks.In this powerful conversation, Susan brings on Desi, a certified mindset and performance coach and former college middle blocker, to break down what most athletes miss about confidence, handling disappointment, and navigating the mental side of recruiting.They talk about why burying your emotions backfires, how to actually process disappointment (instead of pretending it’s fine), and why learning to fall in love with the process will change everything — on and off the court.Whether you’re a top recruit or just trying to make your club team, this episode is a must-listen if you want to play your best under pressure and build the skills that last far beyond volleyball.Chapters:00:00 – Meet Desi + why mindset matters02:00 – Desi’s story: from headcase to certified mindset coach05:30 – The difference between venting and real change08:00 – Why positivity alone isn’t enough10:00 – How to acknowledge disappointment without losing hope13:30 – The power of asking why you aren’t a 10 16:00 – The 50/50 principle + how it applies to recruiting 19:30 – Understanding dopamine highs and lows 22:00 – Why celebrating small wins trains your brain for success 25:00 – How to prep before talking with coaches 28:00 – Getting out of “prove mode” and back to having fun 32:00 – Why coaches love athletes who create positive energy 35:00 – Final thoughts: focus on who you become, not just what you achieveConnect with Susan:Check out the website: www.nxtvb.comFollow on Instagram + TikTok: @hey.susankwww.rallysend.comLooking for a better way to stay organized and manage your recruiting? Check out www.rallysend.com—our go-to recruiting software for athletes, families, and clubs. It streamlines communication with college coaches, saves hours on recruiting outreach, and helps you stay ahead of the biggest challenge in the recruiting process: time.Use code HEYSUSAN to save $5/month on a monthly subscription or $50 off an annual plan.