Bonus: Preparing for a Holiday That Will Disappoint

Courtney and Melissa talk about the gap between our high expectations for the holidays and the disappointment we often feel in others or in ourselves. They discuss how to be pro-active in preparing our hearts to hope in the Lord rather than in perfection, how to bear the fruit of the Spirit while also meeting the practical needs of those around us, and how inviting nonfamily into family holidays can bring great blessing. Whether you are excited about Thanksgiving and Christmas or tired just thinking about them, listen to this conversation and be encouraged!Resources Mentioned: 6 Ways to Prepare for a Holiday That Will Disappoint (printable pdf) https://media.thegospelcoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/10111351/6-Ways-to-Prepare-for-a-Holiday-That-Will-Disappoint-Printable.pdfThe Gift of All Gifts by Melissa KrugerUnto Us: 25 Advent Devotions about the MessiahThe Weary World Rejoices: Daily Devotions for AdventRelated Content:This Thanksgiving, Come to the TableHow Not to Gossip During the HolidaysPreparing for Advent Season DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:1. How have your expectations for the holidays changed over time?2. In what ways can unrealistic expectations set us up for disappointment? What helps you hold your expectations in a healthy way?3. What’s one thing you’re especially looking forward to and one thing you anticipate may be challenging this holiday season?4. What rhythms or practices help you cultivate gratitude—both during the holidays and throughout the rest of the year?5. What conversations or interactions do you want to intentionally prioritize this holiday season, and what might that look like in practice?6. How can your church, small group, or family support those who are experiencing grief, loneliness, or unmet expectations this season?7. Which fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22–23) do you most want God to grow in you this holiday season, and why? Pick up a copy of Stand In Awe wherever books are sold or visit crossway.org/standinawe to learn how to get 30 percent off with a free Crossway plus account. Get 20% off a course of your choice when you use code DEEPDISH20 at checkout. Learn more and register now at lifeway.com/academy. That’s lifeway.com/academy Click here for more information about Women's Initiatives at The Gospel Coalition!Click here to sign up for notification of on-demand access to keynotes and breakout sessions from our recent conference, TGCW26! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.