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EPISODE · Aug 1, 2022 · 41 MIN

Boundaries and Relationships

from Dear Gabby · host Gabby Bernstein

Do you struggle to set boundaries for yourself? You are not alone! So many people who call in to Dear Gabby have people-pleasing tendencies and override their own needs because they’re afraid of hurting someone else. If this sounds like you, this episode will serve you greatly. I’ll share a 4-step method that will help you set boundaries with love, communicate more clearly, and bust through anxiety and uncertainty in relationships. This really works!   The following are helpful resources and books I mention in the episode:  Do yourself a favor. Set aside 2 minutes to take my FREE What’s Your Attachment Style? quiz. https://bit.ly/3vqKAKV Want to learn more about attachment styles? Listen to this episode of the Dear Gabby podcast: Transform Your Relationship By Understanding Your Attachment Style https://bit.ly/3PJBosR  Here are the 4 steps to creating boundaries with love, which I talk about in detail on today’s Dear Gabby. Bookmark this page and come back to this guide anytime you need to set a boundary. This takes practice, so be patient with yourself as you apply these steps.  Step 1: Center into love.  Step 2: Get crystal clear on the boundary you want to set, and with whom. Step 3: Let go of the other person’s reaction.  Step 4: Be patient.    If you feel you need additional support, please refer to this list of mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here. https://bit.ly/3oD3mLh This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey toward inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from  a qualified health professional.   Exclusively for Dear Gabby listeners, Feel Free Botanic Tonics is offering a 40% off - just use promo code GABBY at checkout.   BetterHelp is customized online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat sessions with your therapist, so you don’t have to see anyone on camera if you don’t want to. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/deargabby.   Go to shopify.com/gabby for a FREE fourteen-day trial and get full access to Shopify’s entire suite of features.   Right now, you can get 15% off the Just Thrive and Just Calm duo when you go to JustThriveHealth.com and use code: GABBY at checkout    Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you struggle to set boundaries for yourself? You are not alone! So many people who call in to Dear Gabby have people-pleasing tendencies and override their own needs because they’re afraid of hurting someone else. If this sounds like you, this episode will serve you greatly. I’ll share a 4-step method that will help you set boundaries with love, communicate more clearly, and bust through anxiety and uncertainty in relationships. This really works!   The following are helpful resources and books I mention in the episode:  Do yourself a favor. Set aside 2 minutes to take my FREE What’s Your Attachment Style? quiz. https://bit.ly/3vqKAKV Want to learn more about attachment styles? Listen to this episode of the Dear Gabby podcast: Transform Your Relationship By Understanding Your Attachment Style https://bit.ly/3PJBosR  Here are the 4 steps to creating boundaries with love, which I talk about in detail on today’s Dear Gabby. Bookmark this page and come back to this guide anytime you need to set a boundary. This takes practice, so be patient with yourself as you apply these steps.  Step 1: Center into love.  Step 2: Get crystal clear on the boundary you want to set, and with whom. Step 3: Let go of the other person’s reaction.  Step 4: Be patient.    If you feel you need additional support, please refer to this list of mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here. https://bit.ly/3oD3mLh This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey toward inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from  a qualified health professional.   Exclusively for Dear Gabby listeners, Feel Free Botanic Tonics is offering a 40% off - just use promo code GABBY at checkout.   BetterHelp is customized online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat sessions with your therapist, so you don’t have to see anyone on camera if you don’t want to. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/deargabby.   Go to shopify.com/gabby for a FREE fourteen-day trial and get full access to Shopify’s entire suite of features.   Right now, you can get 15% off the Just Thrive and Just Calm duo when you go to JustThriveHealth.com and use code: GABBY at checkout    Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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