"Boy Sober" With Holly Solem

In which we analyze the psychological appeal of secret sex. This week, Sophia and Kelsey introduce us to the very endearing (and very horny) Mason*, a sweet San Diegan who’s open to just about anything. Reading as Mason is the great Holly Solem: ‘Playgirl’ columnist, host of Manthropology TV, and author of HollyWould. Jump in to hear Mason tell us about his ex’s controlling family, a thorny love triangle, and sex solicitations on the Whisper app. *Not Mason’s real name, but definitely his real stories. Today’s episode includes … 00:00: Some R&R gone wrong at the bar 07:16: Our guest: Holly Solem 15:41: Our business: “Mason” 17:55: First Things First: “The nice Christian girl wasn't as horny as I was” 24:12: Worst Ex: “She was fiery and exciting” 35:59: One Who Got Away: “We were both obsessed with the idea of non-monogamy" 51:01: Craziest Sex Stories: “I slept with as many people in San Diego as I could" 59:52: Best I Ever Had: “I'm a bottom" 1:01:48: Wife Guy: "I was really into moms" 1:06:22: Status Update: “About 98 percent monogamous” If you have business you’d like to submit, hit us up at [email protected]. Follow Holly’s accounts on IG! http://instagram.com/hollymsolem http://instagram.com/manthropologytv Check out her substack HollyWould! https://hollywould.substack.com Hosts: Sophia Benoit and Kelsey June Jensen Guest: Holly Solem Supervising Producer: Justin Sayles Additional Production: Sasha Ashall, Julianna Ress, and Austin Gayle Video Editing and Production: Kayla Talley Social: Sasha Ashall and Austin Gayle Art Direction: David Shoemaker and Aleya Zenieris Motion Design: Skull Closet Studio Additional Motion Design Support: Chris Calleton Theme Song: “Feeling Myself” by Joseph, used under license from ⁠http://premiumbeat.com⁠. CONNECT Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/noneofmybusiness.pod⁠ TikTok: ⁠tiktok.com/@noneofmybusiness.pod⁠ Sophia's Twitter: ⁠x.com/1followernodad⁠ Sophia's Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/sgbenoit⁠ Kelsey's TikTok: ⁠tiktok.com/@kelseyjunejensen⁠ Kelsey's Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/kelseyjunejensen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices