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EPISODE · Nov 20, 2025 · 29 MIN

Breaking Free from “Why Me?” with Debbie Weiss

from Life Stories Podcast · host Shara Goswick

In this episode, I sit down with Debbie Weiss, best-selling author, speaker, and host of the Maybe I Can podcast, to talk about what it really looks like to rewrite your story after decades of caregiving, loss, and self-sacrifice.Debbie opens up about becoming a caregiver at just 17 years old, navigating her father’s stroke, raising a son with multiple diagnoses, supporting a husband through mental and physical illness, and ultimately facing widowhood. For years, she believed her circumstances defined her… until an unexpected trip with friends at age 50 sparked an aha moment that changed everything.In this conversation, Debbie shares how she traded a lifetime of “why me?” thinking for a mindset of ownership, courage, and small, sustainable steps. She walks us through the mindset shift that helped her lose 90 pounds, write two books, appear on The Kelly Clarkson Show, and launch her powerful new life-approach, The Sprinkle Effect™.If you’ve ever put yourself last, felt stuck in survival mode, or wondered whether it’s “too late” to chase a dream… you need this episode. Debbie’s message is filled with hope, honesty, humor, and practical wisdom for every woman ready to reclaim her joy.In This Episode We Cover:*How Debbie spent 40 years in caregiving roles and what it cost her*The Bermuda trip that sparked her mindset awakening*What “victim mentality” looked like in real life — and how she recognized it*Why small changes (“sprinkles”) matter more than big leaps*Her 3.5-year journey to losing 90 pounds and what actually worked*What it felt like to speak publicly for the first time*How she ended up writing a memoir and landing on The Kelly Clarkson Show*The importance of saying no and setting boundaries*How The Sprinkle Effect and Workbook help women change their lives one small step at a timeConnect with Debbie Weiss: https://www.debbierweiss.com/Want to be a guest on Life Stories Podcast? Send Shara Goswick a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1718977880777072342a16683

In this episode, I sit down with Debbie Weiss, best-selling author, speaker, and host of the Maybe I Can podcast, to talk about what it really looks like to rewrite your story after decades of caregiving, loss, and self-sacrifice.Debbie opens up about becoming a caregiver at just 17 years old, navigating her father’s stroke, raising a son with multiple diagnoses, supporting a husband through mental and physical illness, and ultimately facing widowhood. For years, she believed her circumstances defined her… until an unexpected trip with friends at age 50 sparked an aha moment that changed everything.In this conversation, Debbie shares how she traded a lifetime of “why me?” thinking for a mindset of ownership, courage, and small, sustainable steps. She walks us through the mindset shift that helped her lose 90 pounds, write two books, appear on The Kelly Clarkson Show, and launch her powerful new life-approach, The Sprinkle Effect™.If you’ve ever put yourself last, felt stuck in survival mode, or wondered whether it’s “too late” to chase a dream… you need this episode. Debbie’s message is filled with hope, honesty, humor, and practical wisdom for every woman ready to reclaim her joy.In This Episode We Cover:*How Debbie spent 40 years in caregiving roles and what it cost her*The Bermuda trip that sparked her mindset awakening*What “victim mentality” looked like in real life — and how she recognized it*Why small changes (“sprinkles”) matter more than big leaps*Her 3.5-year journey to losing 90 pounds and what actually worked*What it felt like to speak publicly for the first time*How she ended up writing a memoir and landing on The Kelly Clarkson Show*The importance of saying no and setting boundaries*How The Sprinkle Effect and Workbook help women change their lives one small step at a timeConnect with Debbie Weiss: https://www.debbierweiss.com/Want to be a guest on Life Stories Podcast? Send Shara Goswick a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1718977880777072342a16683

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