Breaking Generational Trauma: Trash Bag at 12, Dad of 5 at 50. episode artwork

EPISODE · Jun 4, 2026 · 54 MIN

Breaking Generational Trauma: Trash Bag at 12, Dad of 5 at 50.

from Chat with Dr. Kat · host Dr. Kat Derrig-Palumbo

Most of us inherit something from the people who raised us — a temper, a coping pattern, a way of speaking to children that sounds disturbingly familiar coming out of our own mouths. Breaking that inheritance is one of the hardest psychological projects a person can take on, and almost no one is given a map for it. This week Dr. Kat sits with Rob Scheer, founder of the international nonprofit Comfort Cases, a CNN Hero, and someone who entered foster care at 12 carrying a black trash bag and walked out homeless at 18 carrying another one.Rob talks openly about surviving sexual abuse, four suicide attempts, and the moment at 24 when he knelt at his mother's unmarked grave and chose to forgive — not as a gift to her, but to take his power back. He and Dr. Kat dig into why foster youth carry PTSD at twice the rate of combat veterans, why empathy and legacy have to be taught rather than inherited, and what it actually takes to be a parent when you had no model for one. If you've ever wondered whether the cycle can really stop with you, this is the conversation.I want to hear from you!  To submit show ideas or be considered as a guest, visit https://chatwithdrkat.com/contact/Follow Chat with Dr. Kat:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/chatwithdrkatInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/chatwithdrkatYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@chatwithdrkatTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatwithdrkatX:  https://x.com/ChatwithDrKatHealth & Wellness Programs:https://mindbodyseries.com/

Episode metadata supplied by the publisher feed · Published Jun 4, 2026

Embed this episode

Most of us inherit something from the people who raised us — a temper, a coping pattern, a way of speaking to children that sounds disturbingly familiar coming out of our own mouths. Breaking that inheritance is one of the hardest psychological projects a person can take on, and almost no one is given a map for it. This week Dr. Kat sits with Rob Scheer, founder of the international nonprofit Comfort Cases, a CNN Hero, and someone who entered foster care at 12 carrying a black trash bag and w...

Distinct summary based on available episode metadata or transcript content.

NOW PLAYING

Breaking Generational Trauma: Trash Bag at 12, Dad of 5 at 50.

0:00 54:45

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

No similar episodes found.

No similar podcasts found.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of Chat with Dr. Kat?

This episode is 54 minutes long.

When was this Chat with Dr. Kat episode published?

This episode was published on June 4, 2026.

Can I download this Chat with Dr. Kat episode?

Yes. Use the download control on the episode player to save the publisher-provided media file.
URL copied to clipboard!