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EPISODE · Apr 18, 2026 · 19 MIN

Breaking the Cycle - Ep.3

from Beyond the Feed · host Da Neng Vang

"The demons you don't fight in this lifetime, your children will have to face them."In this episode of Beyond the Feed, I’m going deeper than the surface to explore a question that has been haunting me as I enter my 30s: How do we stop our past trauma from becoming our children’s future?I open up about the two car accidents in my early 20s that fundamentally changed how I view life and death. With moments inbetween and afterwards, death become a fascination. In this episode, we discuss:The "Demon" Concept: Why healing isn't just about us, but about the legacy we leave for our kids.Surviving the Crash: A minute-by-minute account of a near-death experience and the fear (and eventual acceptance) of death that followed.The Burden of the Provider: My experience raising my wife’s younger sisters from a young age and the specific grief of "losing" them as they grew up.Processing Through Therapy: Why I’m finally choosing to fight these demons now so they don't hurt my family later.This is a vulnerable conversation about accountability, fatherhood, and the hidden scars of our 20s. I share these stories not to dwell on the past, but to help anyone else out there who is currently struggling with their own quiet battles.Connect & Support:Subscribe for more deep dives into the human experience.Comment below: What is a "demon" or a pattern you are working to break for the next generation?Follow us on Instagram: @_btfpodcast#BeyondTheFeed #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Fatherhood #BreakingTheCycle #Grief #Storytelling

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"The demons you don't fight in this lifetime, your children will have to face them."In this episode of Beyond the Feed, I’m going deeper than the surface to explore a question that has been haunting me as I enter my 30s: How do we stop our past trauma from becoming our children’s future?I open up about the two car accidents in my early 20s that fundamentally changed how I view life and death. With moments inbetween and afterwards, death become a fascination. In this episode, we discuss:The "Demon" Concept: Why healing isn't just about us, but about the legacy we leave for our kids.Surviving the Crash: A minute-by-minute account of a near-death experience and the fear (and eventual acceptance) of death that followed.The Burden of the Provider: My experience raising my wife’s younger sisters from a young age and the specific grief of "losing" them as they grew up.Processing Through Therapy: Why I’m finally choosing to fight these demons now so they don't hurt my family later.This is a vulnerable conversation about accountability, fatherhood, and the hidden scars of our 20s. I share these stories not to dwell on the past, but to help anyone else out there who is currently struggling with their own quiet battles.Connect & Support:Subscribe for more deep dives into the human experience.Comment below: What is a "demon" or a pattern you are working to break for the next generation?Follow us on Instagram: @_btfpodcast#BeyondTheFeed #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Fatherhood #BreakingTheCycle #Grief #Storytelling

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