Breakups, Boners & Becoming | Adam Roa on Crazy Love

Adam Roa returns to The Breaking Normal Podcast to celebrate the release of his new book, Crazy Love, but this conversation quickly goes far beyond poetry.We dive into modern dating, "heartbreak", vulnerability, masculinity, authenticity, and one surprisingly memorable question: Can you have a boner… and cry at the same time?From the illusion of choice created by dating apps to why heartbreak can become one of life’s greatest teachers, this episode explores what happens when we stop performing and start telling the truth.We also discuss:Why every breakup might actually be a gift.The one question everyone should ask on a first date.The biggest problem with modern dating.Why creating emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual safety is the foundation of both healthy relationships and raising healthy children.How Adam’s daily practice keeps him grounded.The difference between chasing approval and becoming addicted to authenticity.Why what’s most personal often becomes the most universal.The tension between living from your history versus living toward mystery.Following your biology instead of your conditioning.Why I stopped showering… and why Adam thought I was taking tanning peptides.Why Adam is now officially a fan of edible bison tallow—and yes, we also talk about freeze-dried bison testicles and optimizing fertility before having children. Whether you’re healing from a breakup, questioning modern relationships, or simply trying to become more authentically yourself, this conversation is full of laughter, honesty, funcomfortable questions, and moments that may completely change the way you think about love.Connect with Adam Roa:🌐 Website: adamroa.com📖 Crazy Love — available now📷 Instagram: @adam.roaSupport the podcast & experience fertility maxing:🦬 Tribe Vitamins: TribeVitamins.com