Bringing the JOY to Conflict & Confrontational Conversations

This week Ali steps away from the 'Rebel' interview series to share something raw and real. A conversation with a Brilliance client about her fear of confrontation. A near miss on the motorway. A hard conversation . And three new JOY codes that came out of all of it.In this episode:Why so many women, especially women who are married, running businesses or raising children, spend their energy keeping the peace around them, only to end up at war within themselvesUsing Human Design to understand why conflict lands so hard for some of us (the undefined solar plexus, explained through the bubble analogy)The story: a scorching Friday drive home, a property handover crisis, a near collision with a lorry, and the flood of feeling that followedCode 1: comparison isn't always the thief of joy, sometimes it shows you exactly what you want more ofCode 2: why asking for space before a hard conversation isn't avoidance, it's respectCode 3: confrontation only exists when you bring provocation to the table. Bring calm instead, and there's just conversationThe sailor and the harbour: why coming to rest after high seas can feel harder than the storm itself, and why that's not a sign anything's wrongWhat happened when Ali and James finally had the conversation, and the bigger realisation waiting on the other side of itMentioned in this episode:Human Design: find out yours free here:Join the Joy Rebellion membership here : £22/month or £222/yearCALM:  buy the book here (visualisation, nervous system, calm as a practice)Coming next week: part two of the mini series. Ali takes you through her own dreaming and blueprinting process, ahead of the Lionsgate portal on 8/8.The answer is always joy. Love always, Ali xhttps://www.alimortimer.com/