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Join Niiamah (@niiamahashong) and Alexis Arden for a throwback live coaching session that exposes a pattern most leaders never name out loud. Alexis has a global movement she can see in full detail. She also cannot imagine starting it. Underneath that contradiction lives a vow she made as a child, never to let career come before family. Watching A-list clients pay that exact price for a decade only welded the rule deeper. Now her own vision is the thing the rule is firing against.This conversation unpacks why the vision itself is the problem, not her courage.What you'll take away:Why the cost you fear most is usually a rule written by a younger version of youHow to spot the life preserver you have already outgrownWhy a vision that asks you to abandon your top value is not the vision yetWelcome to the Outlier's Edge Podcast, hosted by Niiamah Ashong, Founder of Outlier's Edge and Sherpa of the World of Difference. On this podcast, you'll join other high-performing unconventional leaders and entrepreneurs (aka Outliers) as they talk about leveraging what makes them different to make a difference in the world. --Check out the video episode on YouTube!--Timestamps:00:00 — Welcome to Shape Your World Live 02:30 — What this is all for 06:50 — Alexis enters the room 08:35 — The decade behind her 11:00 — Why she does this work 14:00 — Naming Alexis as outlier 17:30 — A world changing conversation 19:18 — The vision feels impossible 24:30 — What's underneath the fear 27:00 — The worthiness question 29:50 — The mother guilt cost 36:00 — What has to die 39:50 — The life preserver story 44:00 — The childhood vow 47:30 — The vision isn't big enough 50:10 — One practice to sit withFollow Outlier's Edge Socials:Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | Youtube | Website | Guild CommunitySubscribe. Drop a comment with the vow you are ready to retire. Come build with us at skool.com/outlier.Episode originally posted on: 7/7/2020