EPISODE · Jun 22, 2025 · 18 MIN
But Do You Really Care: How Covert Narcissists Fake Empathy
from The Covert Narcissism Podcast · host Bleav + Renee Swanson
Empathy — we all think we know what it means, until we’re in a relationship where it’s missing. Covert narcissists are often skilled at sounding emotionally intelligent. They can say the right words, mirror emotional language, and even cry on cue — but something still feels off. That’s because what they offer isn’t real empathy; it’s a performance. In this episode, we explore the difference between true empathy and intellectual mimicry, revealing how covert narcissists can talk the talk while leaving you emotionally starved. You’ll hear real-life examples of how this plays out, how it erodes your sense of self, and why it’s not your fault that their words never seem to reach your heart. If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I still feel so alone when I’m not alone?” — this episode is for you. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
What this episode covers
Covert narcissists can sound empathic — but what they offer is often a hollow performance. In this episode, we unpack how fake empathy shows up in relationships, why it’s so confusing, and how to recognize the emotional void behind their carefully chosen words. You’re not too sensitive — you’ve just been missing something real.
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