BW 029: Social Circle Changes Post Loss and What to Do

Commonly widows report having a completely new social circle once their spouse dies.  They may feel abandoned, misunderstood, judged, rejected, forgotten, and lost. You will be disappointed by people who don’t show up for you the way you wish they would; alternatively you will be delighted by people who show up for you who you never thought would. When you become a widow, your social circle can change in significant ways.  In today's episode we talk about 5 reasons why:   We talk about: ~ Loss of shared friends ~ Changed interests and priorities ~ Emotional pain and isolation ~ Communicating your needs   Quotes: ~ "Losing a spouse is like being reborn. You're trying to figure out who you are as a person individually instead of who you are as a couple." ~"The biggest thing that you can do is help communicate your needs, tell your friends and your family what you need from them and let them know."   Things mentioned: ~ BW 024 : How to Network Like an Introvert - and Actually Enjoy it!   The Brave Widow Community is a place where you can connect with other widows, find hope and healing, and begin to dream again for the future.  Learn more at bravewidow.com.     Hey guys, I’m Emily Jones I was widowed at age 37, one month shy of our 20 year wedding anniversary.  Nathan and I have four beautiful children together.  My world was turned completely upside down when I lost him.  With faith, community, and wisdom from others, I’ve been able to find hope, joy, and dream again for the future.  I want to help others do the same, too!   FOLLOW me on SOCIAL: Twitter @brave_widow Instagram @brave_widow Facebook https://www.facebook.com/bravewidow YouTube@bravewidow