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EPISODE · Nov 18, 2025 · 58 MIN

Cake for Dinner: Real Talk on Motherhood, Identity & Becoming You with Keesha Scott Ep. 211

from Becoming: HER with Nikki Spoelstra · host Nikki Spo

In this powerful and refreshingly honest episode of Becoming HER, Nikki sits down with Keesha Scott, mom of three, certified parenting coach, co-founder of Guardian Recovery, and host of the podcast Cake for Dinner.What started as a project tied to her upcoming parenting book has evolved into a movement, one that invites women to have real conversations about motherhood, marriage, sobriety, identity, and the messy middle of becoming who we’re meant to be.Keesha opens up about her personal journey, from early struggles and single motherhood to finding purpose through healing, faith, and self-awareness. She shares how we can release perfectionism, reconnect with who we are in this season, and raise our kids (and ourselves) with more grace and truth.If you’ve ever felt lost in the roles you play as mom, partner, professional, friend, this episode will remind you that becoming her isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about showing up as your truest self, one imperfect day at a time. Tune in.In this episode…The real reason Keesha created Cake for Dinner — and how it grew beyond a book launch.Why women lose their sense of identity in motherhood (and how to reclaim it).The truth about balancing marriage, motherhood, and self.What authenticity really looks like — and how to stop chasing “perfect.”How to strengthen connection and communication with your kids.The mindset shifts that help us thrive in every season of life.Quotes“You can’t outparent genetics.” - Keesha Scott“People don’t connect with perfection. They connect with reality.” - Keesha Scott“Resentment is like drinking the poison but expecting someone else to die.” - Nikki SpoTimestamps:0:00 - 3:05 | Intro3:05 - 6:50 | Paths shifting6:50 - 11:00 | Addiction in young people11:00 - 15:25 | Parenting from a pure space15:25 - 17:55 | Coming out the other side17:55 - 20:55 | Turning point20:55 - 23:15 | Staying sober through the hardships23:15 - 26:15 | Rise of the community26:15 - 37:00 | Resentment37:00 - 43:30 | The gift of being a mom43:30 - 45:15 | Different experiences45:15 - 50:15 | Giving life meaning50:15 - 51:50 | The desire to be of service51:50 - 53:00 | Women coming together53:00 - 56:05 | Cake for Dinner56:05 - 56:30 | Single mom56:30 - 58:59 | Outro–SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code NIKKISPOGLOW.Connect with Keesha Scottkeeshascott.com@keeshascottparentcoachConnect with Nikkiwww.nikkispo.com@nikkisappspo / @wearebecoming_her Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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