Call with Ma

The speaker recounts a childhood memory of Auntie Nelly, a relative who lived with the speaker’s family. Auntie Nelly, who was considered strange and possibly autistic, eventually moved to a Jewish old age home. The speaker’s uncle, Ian, disapproves of homosexuality, believing it contradicts the Torah, and is upset that his daughter, Rochelle, is gay. The speaker reflects on their relationship with their mother, acknowledging the mother’s support and wisdom. They discuss the importance of forgiveness and understanding, particularly in relation to past relationships and family dynamics. The conversation also touches on the speaker’s career as a therapist and the value of honesty and empathy in their work. The speaker expresses concern about their son Mark’s emotional well-being, noting his secretive nature and lack of close relationships. They believe Mark avoids conflict and deep connections, possibly due to the overwhelming challenges he faces, including chronic pain and the limitations it imposes on his life. The speaker compares Mark’s behaviour to the Enneagram type 9, suggesting he suppresses his emotions and struggles with internal turmoil. The speaker expresses relief that their brother is back in therapy, highlighting the importance of having support. They discuss their brother’s complex personality, characterised by loyalty, scepticism, and a demanding nature, while also acknowledging his fearfulness and infantile tendencies. The conversation also touches on their brother’s unwavering support for Trump, which the speaker finds concerning and indicative of his childlike thinking. A request for Z library books is made and will be sent.