Calling Myself Out

Think of all the little things that get on your nerves and offend you. Now compare those with the list commanded by OLJC in The Sermon on the Mount. It's time we have the courage to face ourselves and to call ourselves out and to abide by the constitution of the Christian commanded by the Lord. How can one actually get to a place where they are able to truly love their enemies, do good to those who hate nd to pray for those who persecute them from the heart?