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EPISODE · May 9, 2026 · 22 MIN

Can a Borderline Parent Create Narcissistic Traits in their Child? | Epi 150

from The Narcissism Decoder · host Dr. Anthony Mazzella

In this episode, we return to our consolidation series and slow down to explore a listener’s deeply thoughtful question: Is there a relationship between having a borderline parent and developing narcissistic traits? Rather than approaching this in a simplistic or causal way, we unpack the psychodynamic environment the child grows up in—one marked by emotional inconsistency, engulfment, or withdrawal—and how this creates a core internal dilemma. This is a must-listen if you’ve ever wondered how early relational environments shape the way you connect, protect yourself, and experience others. If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.  Want to go deeper? Join me in Office Hours — an open space where we explore psychoanalytic ideas together, answer your questions, and connect theory to real life experiences. Reserve your spot here  Next Meeting: Stay Tuned!  Contact me Directly with observations, questions or comments:  [email protected] You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder  Dr. Mazzella’s personal website: drmazzella.comDr. Anthony Mazzella is a psychoanalyst and psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in narcissism, personality disorders, and relational dynamics.

In this episode, we return to our consolidation series and slow down to explore a listener’s deeply thoughtful question: Is there a relationship between having a borderline parent and developing narcissistic traits? Rather than approaching this in a simplistic or causal way, we unpack the psychodynamic environment the child grows up in—one marked by emotional inconsistency, engulfment, or withdrawal—and how this creates a core internal dilemma. This is a must-listen if you’ve ever wondered ho...

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