Can a Narcissist Change?

We’ve all heard about narcissism, and the typical advice is to leave because they can’t change. That is true most of the time and if you’re in a relationship with a Narcissist, I encourage you to get professional support. However, some therapists who specialize in personality disorders have seen narcissists, with the right support, learn and grow into more empathic people who are capable of showing up with some self-awareness and care. This isn’t the majority, of course, and it’s not to minimize the abuse and hurt that narcissists cause to those closest to them. But if you have to relate to a narcissist, either through family, business, or some other obligation, it’s good to know what your options are. That’s why I decide to interview Dr. Anthony Mazzella. He’s a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist specializing in personality disorders, including narcissistic and borderline pathology. He even hosts a podcast and video channel, called The Narcissism Decoder. He’s seen evidence of change in his practice and wanted to share his insights. Here’s what we cover in his interview: How do you know if the person you're with is on the NPD spectrum? What are the typical painful cycles that people get caught in if they're in this type of relationship? How do you know if they can change? What are the ways that they can change? What is the best case scenario? More about Dr. Anthony Mazzella: You can learn more about his work and his podcast on his website: https://www.drmazzella.com/ Dr. Anthony Mazzella is a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist specializing in psychodynamic treatment for individuals and couples. Driven by a passion for continuous learning, he shares valuable insights, strategies, and practical tips through his podcast and video channel, The Narcissism Decoder. His work focuses on the area he is most passionate about—personality disorders, including narcissistic and borderline pathology.