Can Love Survive a Budget!? w/ Doug & Heather Boneparth #1052

Figuring out your money is tough enough if you’re flying solo. Doing it with your partner ramps up the difficulty level because you're throwing in varied money history, habits, and goals. It can create a lot of friction! Our guests today have a lot of great advice for couples looking to do better with their finances and create a ‘team vibe’ with their partner. If you looked up the definition of ‘power couple’ in the dictionary, you just might see a picture of Doug and Heather Boneparth next to it. Doug has built his own successful financial advisor firm while simultaneously tweeting hilarious memes. Heather is a former corporate attorney and director of business affairs for that firm, Bona Fide Wealth. They’ve written the fabulous new book ‘Money Together’ which launches next week on the 28th, and today we discuss: How understanding individual money histories is crucial for couples Impact of shame around finances Balancing individual and shared goals Creating positive financial vibes Regular money dates  Investing in one area often requires sacrifices in another It's important to recognize the contributions beyond monetary income And plenty more!   Want more How To Money in your life? Here are some additional ways to get ahead with your personal finances: DoMoneyTogether.com is where you can go to learn all about Heather and Doug’s book. ReadTheJointAccount.com is their newsletter and BoneFideWealth.com is their wealth advisory firm. Knowing your ‘money gear’ is a crucial part of your personal finance journey. Start here.  Sign up for the weekly HTM newsletter. It’s fun, free, & practical. Find a thriving community of fellow money nerds by joining the HTM Facebook group! Massively reduce your cell phone bill each month by switching to a discount provider like Mint Mobile.   And please help us to spread the word by letting friends and family know about How to Money! Hit the share button, subscribe if you’re not already a regular listener, and give us a quick review in Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Help us to change the conversation around personal finance and get more people doing smart things with their money!   Best friends out!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.