Can Men and Women be friends?

In this episode of The Space Between Venus and Mars, we revisit the cultural legacy of When Harry Met Sally and its lasting influence on how we think about male-female relationships. From emotional intimacy to unspoken attraction, we explore the tension that can exist within these friendships and why this question continues to spark debate.We also look beyond modern dating and into the past, exploring the ancient Greek concept of multiple forms of love — from friendship and desire to deeper, more enduring connections — and how these ideas still echo in the way we form relationships today.Sources:Doidge, Kristin Marguerite. “When Rob Reiner’s Alter Ego (Harry) Met Nora Ephron’s Alter Ego (Sally).” Literary Hub, 21 June 2022, lithub.com/when-rob-reiners-alter-ego-harry-met-nora-ephrons-alter-ego-sally/“Can Men and Women Be Just Friends?” The Economist, The Economist , 19 June 2026, www.economist.com/international/2025/06/19/can-men-and-women-be-just-friends Albatross, Hero Member. “The Ancient Greeks Recognized 7 Types of Love – Which Defines You?” The Ancient Greeks Recognized 7 Types of Love – Which Defines You?, The Hero’s Spouse - Midlife Crisis: For Those Left Behind, 10 May 2017, mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9024.0Larson, Vicki. “How Men and Women Can Be Friends (without Sex Getting in the Way).” Greater Good Magazine , Greater Good Magazine: Science Based Insights for a Meaningful Life  , 3 July 2024, greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_men_and_women_can_be_friendsBrake , Elizabeth. “Amatonormativity.” Elizabeth Brake, elizabethbrake.com, 9 Oct. 2023, elizabethbrake.com/amatonormativity/. Hanson, Joe. “ Why Your Grandmother Is an Evolutionary Mystery.” Be Smart , Be Smart PBS on YouTube, 21 Mar. 2025, www.youtube.com/watch?v=iKLwzmjfcW4