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EPISODE · Oct 14, 2025 · 1H 7M

Can We Connect? Building Love, Leadership, and Friendship with Ashley Arguello. Ep. 206

from Becoming: HER with Nikki Spoelstra · host Nikki Spo

Welcome listeners! I am thrilled to introduce today's guest, Ashley Arguello co-ceo and co-founder of the innovative new social navigation app canwe. She is a former division one basketball player who shifted to a double major at NYU who combines strategic insight with genuine heart. This week Ashley and I are talking about everything from what it’s like to work with your mans, sustaining friendships through life changes, and what it means to Ashley to be a modern matriarch. Tune in!  In this episode…Marriage is a team True forgiveness Deifying Us against the problem  Honor & humility Success Having a mission together Being seen, heard, & understood  Being feminine is beautiful   Quotes“Without God in your marriage, it is impossible.” - Ashley Arguello“True forgiveness is SO important in marriage.” - Ashley Arguello“I think that there is room for all of us at the top and that there is more that can happen when we collaborate rather than compete.” - Nikki Spo“The most successful men are the ones who lift their female partner up with them.” - Nikki Spo  Timestamps: 0:00 - 2:10 | Intro 2:10 - 7:10 | What it means to be married 7:10 - 11:15 | Forgiveness 11:15 - 15:55 | Canwe app 15:55 - 18:40 | Sustaining the faith to follow your passion 18:40 - 19:55 | Collaboration over competition 19:55 - 22:00 | Working with your mans 22:00 - 25:55 | Honoring each other in a marriage   25:55 - 29:05 | Recognition & appreciation 29:05 - 31:45 | Projection 31:45 - 37:25 | Faith based marriage 37:24 - 42:35 | Motherhood & working 42:35 - 46:40 | Wanting stability 46:40 - 47:35 | Jealousy 47:35 - 49:40 | Being feminine is beautiful 49:40 - 51:46 | How Ashely and Ernesto have influenced others 51:46 - 54:55 | Integrity  54:55 - 1:01:15 | Friendships 1:01:15 - 1:04:50 | Growth, connection, or transformation 1:04:50 - 1:07:05 | Outro   –SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code NIKKISPOGLOW.    Connect with Ashley Arguello canwe.app@ashleytaylorarguello@canwe_app  Connect with Nikki www.nikkispo.com  @nikkisappspo / @wearebecoming_her Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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