Can we have two births?

I saw a white birthday cake with one bright candle. The cake gradually faded away. I believe this message is that whilst our life on this earth is measured by a finite number of years, there is another birth available to us over infinite time and is indicated by this bright candle. This second birth, also referred to as being born again, is into God's Kingdom. This birth is one of personal choice as described to us by Jesus in the Gospel of John 3. He tells Nicodemus, a Pharisee of the Jewish ruling councl who came secretly to Jesus one night to ask about the Kingdom of God, that "...no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again. ...no one can enter ...unless they are born of water and the Spirit". (John 3:3,5). Ask Jesus, quietly within your soul, how to enter the Kingdom of God. He will reply. If He doesn't exist what you have lost? If he does exist and what He says is true , you will gain eternal life.