Can We Not?! Our Wildly Unqualified Opinions on What Needs to Stop

This week on The Blunt and The Beautiful, Kate and Tans unleash a rant-filled, laugh-out-loud episode dedicated to everything they wish people would simply knock off. From the everyday annoyances that make their blood boil to the big societal habits that need a total rebrand, nothing is safe.Armed with wildly unqualified opinions (and zero hesitation), they cover:The big “Can You Nots” – from asking about birth stories to refusing to vaccinate your kidsWhy being rude to waiters, nurses, or anyone in the service industry should be a criminal offenceMispronouncing names you can pronounce (but won’t)Men calling their exes “crazy” – and what it really says about themHusbands making “no sex” jokes about their wives in public – please stopPeople who never ask questions in conversationsRoad rage, boasting about not crying, and chronic one-uppersThe rules they’d enforce if they ran the world (warning: birds and men in night-time packs are in trouble)Education changes they’d make tomorrow – including later school start times and free uniSocial media icks – from monetising tragedies to before-and-after weight loss postsWhy some influencers clearly hate their followersTheir final list of bans, from faceless accounts to middle-aged men on e-scootersThis episode is pure Kate-and-Tans energy – sharp, sarcastic, brutally honest, and absolutely hilarious. They don’t just rant – they roast, reimagine, and rewrite the rules of everyday life.💬 Join the conversation: What’s your biggest “Can You Not”?🎙 The Blunt and The Beautiful – where society gets dissected and the blunt truth always wins.Sponsored by:She Emerges – An Island Escape hosted by KI Dragonfly Guesthouse on Kangaroo Island. A 3–5 day adventure for women ready to embrace their Second Spring with coastal walks, ice baths, sound healing, and connection. For more info please follow the link below:https://www.kidragonfly.com/Timestamps:00:00 – Sponsored by She Emerges01:14 – Can You Not?! The rant begins02:04 – Birth story & baby feeding questions – stop asking03:00 – Rude to waiters? You’re done04:27 – Learn to pronounce names properly05:22 – Men calling their exes “crazy”06:34 – Public “no sex” jokes – just no07:14 – Friends who never ask questions09:09 – Road rage10:40 – Boasting about not crying11:55 – If we ran the world…14:24 – Latecomers & line pushers17:22 – Why rude customers should beware18:18 – The change room mirror rule19:35 – Education system fixes22:30 – University doesn’t define you23:02 – Men with podcasts23:45 – The e-scooter “big bird” incident24:32 – Monetising tragedy online – gross26:47 – Chronic one-uppers vs. genuine empathy30:20 – Before & after body posts – banned31:15 – Influencers who hate their followers34:20 – Faceless troll accounts – stand by your words35:03 – Wrapping up the fixes for society🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every week and join us in telling the world: “Can you not?”#TheBluntAndTheBeautiful #Season2 #CanYouNot #Podcast #WildlyUnqualifiedOpinions #PetPeeves #ServiceIndustry #SocialMediaIcks #RantPodcast #MotherDaughterPodcast