Can You Assume a Loved One Is in Heaven? (The Patrick Madrid Show)

When we lose someone we love deeply, we are often greeted by grief and difficult spiritual questions. On The Patrick Madrid Show, a caller named John shared a tender concern. After his wife passed away, having received the apostolic pardon, he wondered: Is it a sin to assume she is in Heaven? Patrick’s answer was both reassuring and rooted in Christian hope. “No, not at all,” he said. “It's part of your Christian hope in God's mercy and love.” Far from being sinful, this kind of hope reflects trust in God’s goodness, especially when we know the person lived a faithful life. Patrick encouraged John to take comfort in that hope, while also continuing to pray for his wife. After all, prayer for the dead is always a loving act. John’s confusion came from hearing that “assuming” something can be sinful. Patrick clarified the difference. The real danger lies in rash judgment, assuming moral fault in others without evidence. But hoping in someone’s salvation is entirely different. “What you're talking about is not in that category at all,” Patrick explained. In the end, this moment highlights a beautiful balance in Catholic life: We trust in God’s mercy, we hope in Heaven, and we continue to pray with love. Even in grief, hope remains. The best way to listen to the Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out here.