Can You Be Rejected for Not Having the Holy Spirit?

Jesus gave a parable about 5 foolish virgins and 5 wise virgins; how they were shut out when the bridegroom returned. This has been commonly understood to be speaking of the return of Christ. But this is about the Kingdom of Heaven, not the Kingdom of God. And not about believers being left at the rapture. Michael pearl teaches through scripture in the second video in his series on Eight Kingdoms.