Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 1

Today, Mardi Winder talks with Victoria Kirilloff, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst who brings both personal experience and a highly analytical lens to a high-conflict and toxic divorce process. The conversation explores how Victoria’s journey led her to create divorce analytics and develop the global settlement proposal, a powerful tool that gives individuals a complete and realistic view of their financial situation as they move through divorce.Victoria walks through why divorce cannot be treated as a single event. It is emotional, financial, legal, and social all at once, and when people begin to understand that complexity, they are far better positioned to make thoughtful, informed decisions. Mardi and Victoria talk about the importance of truly knowing your numbers, building a workable budget, and preparing well in advance of any negotiations or meetings with legal professionals.Victoria also shares the lessons learned from her own experience, including navigating a toxic relationship and ultimately building a business that helps others avoid the same costly mistakes. They discuss the critical need for financial transparency, proper documentation of assets, and the risks of misjudging asset values or making assumptions about spousal support.This is an honest conversation about what really happens when emotions and finances collide in a high-conflict relationship mediation. With the right support team, including financial specialists and strategic divorce guidance, it is possible to move through the process with greater clarity and confidence. Victoria brings both expertise and a grounded perspective that encourages you to see divorce not just as an ending, but as a turning point toward something more intentional and aligned with your future.Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.comConnect with Mardi:Email: [email protected]: divorcecoach4women.comAbout the GuestVictoria Kirilloff, CDFA®, NCPM®, CDS®, was at a crossroads in a decade-long, financially entangled relationship that had turned toxic. To find her way out, she leveraged her background in financial analysis, creating the first Global Settlement Proposal and divorce report. This helped her and her partner reach a peaceful separation, sparking an idea: she could help others navigate divorce with financial clarity and empowerment.Victoria went on to found Divorce Analytics, a firm dedicated to making the financial side of divorce transparent and productive. By focusing on financial facts, she transforms divorce from a destructive process into one of empowerment.Victoria has also released a 9-part Divorce Planning Kit, available at DivorceAnalytics.com/shop. Along with her many financial licenses, she’s a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and Nationally Certified Professional Mediator®.To connect with Victoria:Website: https://www.divorceanalytics.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/divorce-analyticsIG: https://www.instagram.com/divorceanalytics/