Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 2

Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 2Financial empowerment and emotional preparedness are at the center of this meaningful conversation with Victoria Kirilloff, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, as she joins Mardi Winder for the second part of their discussion about navigating divorce with high-conflict personalities. Victoria recounts her own journey through a decade-long relationship with a covert narcissist, emphasizing the importance of safety, support, and trauma awareness when separating from a high-conflict partner. She highlights how having a clear understanding of the financial aspects—particularly through documentation, cash flow analysis, and setting specific goals—can serve as an anchor amid the turbulence of divorce.Mardi and Victoria acknowledge the emotional hurdles many face, from gaslighting to trauma bonding, and explore why specialized, trauma-informed guidance is critical when standard legal approaches fall short. Together, they offer practical strategies for uncovering and verifying financial information, even when the other party is uncooperative or deceptive. Victoria Kirilloff explains how working closely with professionals like CDFAs can empower those in the process, helping to minimize stress and avoid costly, drawn-out legal battles.The episode closes with a reminder about the necessity of planning, self-advocacy, and having a strong support team. Victoria introduces her Divorce Goals workbook to help listeners clarify their objectives through all phases of divorce. Throughout, the message is clear: with the right support and preparation, it is possible to reclaim confidence and security, even amidst the challenges of a high-conflict divorce.Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.comConnect with Mardi:Email: [email protected]: divorcecoach4women.comAbout the GuestVictoria Kirilloff, CDFA®, NCPM®, CDS®, was at a crossroads in a decade-long, financially entangled relationship that had turned toxic. To find her way out, she leveraged her background in financial analysis, creating the first Global Settlement Proposal and divorce report. This helped her and her partner reach a peaceful separation, sparking an idea: she could help others navigate divorce with financial clarity and empowerment.Victoria went on to found Divorce Analytics, a firm dedicated to making the financial side of divorce transparent and productive. By focusing on financial facts, she transforms divorce from a destructive process into one of empowerment.Victoria has also released a 9-part Divorce Planning Kit, available at DivorceAnalytics.com/shop. Along with her many financial licenses, she’s a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and Nationally Certified Professional Mediator®.To connect with Victoria:Website: https://www.divorceanalytics.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/divorce-analytics