Can you say no to being a bridesmaid?

Being asked to be a bridesmaid or groomsman is a huge honour, but it can also come with a big financial, emotional and time commitment. For some, especially those who've done it more than once, saying "yes" isn't always an easy decision.So, is it okay to say no when a loved one asks you to be part of their big day? Have you ever turned down a place in a bridal party? If so, why, and did it affect your relationship?Joining Andrea to discuss is Sarah-Jayne Tobin from DMG Media, Wedding Planner Lindsay Moynagh and Humanist Wedding Celebrant, Ruth Scott.