Caregiver Stress: You Can't Live in the Wreckage of Your Future

As a caregiver, I know how easy it is to carry more than just today. We carry the future, the what-ifs, the fear, the things that have not even happened yet. But I have learned something the hard way. You cannot live in the wreckage of your future. Out here in Montana, I have been talking with ranchers who do not spend their time worrying about what might happen months from now. They do the work in front of them today. That perspective has shaped me more than I expected. As we move toward Easter, I have been wrestling with a deeper question. If past behavior predicts future performance, what hope do we really have? Scripture does not point me to trying harder. It points me to something altogether different, an interruption of that pattern through the resurrection. So for those of us walking through long and difficult seasons of caregiving, this is not about having answers for everything that is coming. It is about doing what is in front of us today, trusting God with what has not arrived yet, and remembering that life does not wait for perfect conditions to begin again.