Caring Grandparents Insights from Neil Taft EP - 244

"Thou shalt honor the parents of your grandchildren. That's the most effective way to build lasting family relationships." — Neil Taft 🧩 Episode Summary In this heartfelt and insightful episode, I reconnect with author and grandparenting expert Neil Taft to explore the evolving role of grandparents in modern families. Neil shares insights from his newest book, Caring Grandparents, and explains how grandparents can both care about and care for their grandchildren. We discuss the emotional and financial realities of grandparents raising grandchildren, the importance of respecting family boundaries, and Neil's viral TikTok moment that reached over 2 million people. His message — "Honor the parents of your grandchildren" — has become a mantra for building healthy, lasting family relationships. You will walk away with wisdom on communication, compassion, and the power of being a "good seer and good sayer." 💡 Key Takeaways Grandparenting today means balancing love, support, and boundaries. "Caring Grandparents" highlights both caring for and about grandchildren. Over 2.5 million U.S. households are led by grandparents raising grandchildren. Neil's viral message reminds us: "The mother is the queen who holds the keys to the castle." Healthy grandparenting starts with empathy, communication, and affirmation. Being a "good seer and good sayer" transforms relationships across generations. 🔗 Links & Resources Click on this link to download your free copy of The Caring Grandparents Connection Guide: https://cool-grandpa.us/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Caring_Grandparents_Connection_Guide.docx 🖥️ Visit Neil's website: CaringGrandparents.com 📚 Learn more about Neil's books: Good to Great, Grandparenting & Caring Grandparents 🎧 Listen to previous episode: Good Seer, Good Sayer: https://cool-grandpa.us/2024/09/26/ep-201-good-seer-good-sayer/ Visit Dr. Kerry Byrnes' group at https://thelongdistancegrandparent.com/ Check out Aaron Larson's community at: https://www.grandparentsacademy.com/ Of course, you're going to want to find Popa Jammie, aka James Lott Jr., on his YouTube channel using this link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJbunerNsVDOMLCrInkAzow You can watch this conversation with me and Neil on YouTube by using this link: https://youtu.be/wTsihHEsoDk 🌐 Follow The Cool Grandpa Podcast: cool-grandpa