Catching a Good Catholic Spouse

Fr. Rob Ryan and Fr. John LoCoco join Doug to discuss an upcoming singles night at St. Benedict Catholic Church in Chicago. Doug also talks about the challenges of dating and what to look for in a future spouse.   Listener questions and comments: Lisa - If you are a female, go to where the men are: the lakes, the beach and hiking. (21:12) Bobby - It’s hard to tell a spouse you don’t like who they hang around with because you might be suggesting they are similar to that group. They might say 'you don’t trust me?' (39:20) Elma - Is it ok to date a widower of only one month? (42:30) Maureen - I used to be a professional matchmake. For Catholics: what a great time to check out the singles at confession. (46:45)   Resources:   Catholic Catch Singles Trivia Pre-Registration https://forms.cloud.microsoft/pages/responsepage.aspx?id=o-0BRmklpkqOCzBfwpVBLl-LqlRwJghFqZHL9AOb2yNUNDVNSzUzWEdUMzQzRDlTRU5aT0FPSzdFQyQlQCNjPTEu&route=shorturl   20 best ways to find a date in real life Sign Up for a Fitness Class / dance lessons Attend Community Events Take a Class That Interests You Say Yes to Social Invitations Become a Regular Somewhere such as a coffee shop Volunteer for a Cause Join a Sports League Attend Networking Events Explore Bookstores and Libraries Take Part in Group Travel or Tours Attend Live Music Events Join a Hobby Group Take Dance Lessons Attend Faith-Based or Spiritual Events Sign Up for a Public Speaking or Improv Class Explore Outdoor Activities Register for Workshops or Seminars Become an Active Member of Your Neighborhood Attend Friend-of-a-Friend Gatherings Focus on Living a Full Life   4 Things to look for when you are dating Does the person ask questions about you and listen for the answers? Do they treat people of lesser status well? Are they reliable? Are they a person of virtue and trying be a better person?   Ask the right questions What brought you here? Wat sparks your curiosity? Who are the people you like to hang out with? What are your hobbies? What do you spend most of your time thinking about? What is something you believe that most people will disagree with? What does a life well-lived look like to you?