Catherine Bonnet - A Wife Locked Out and a Husband Lost to Medical Isolation #21

He called her one last time before they took his phone. "I love you," he said. "Get better. I'll find a way in." Welcome to "Every Patient's Right (TNAP)." In this episode, we bring you the powerful story of Catherine Bonnet, whose husband Ian was suddenly hospitalized with COVID in September 2021. Like so many families during the pandemic, Catherine was forced to advocate from outside the hospital doors—navigating limited information, denied visitation, and impossible decisions, all while her husband faced his toughest battle alone. Through Catherine's firsthand account, we see the painful realities of restricted hospital access and what is truly lost when families are separated from loved ones in critical moments. Her story is both a heartbreaking cautionary tale and a call to action for compassionate, patient-centered care. Join us as we explore the urgent need to keep patients and families connected, no matter the circumstances. Outline: (00:01) Going to urgent care (07:46) Dealing with medication side effects (20:18) Feeling powerless during intubation (23:53) Waiting for medical updates (30:23) Difficult updates about a loved one (32:05) Advocating for patient support (41:34) Preparing for palliative care planning (44:42) Visiting husband in Covid ICU (48:25) Processing difficult medical possibilities (53:13) Sharing life-changing news with family (01:01:06) Possible remdesivir side effects (01:06:26) Coping with loss and resilience   About the Guest: Catherine Bonnet is known for her attentive and compassionate nature. When her loved one began feeling unwell—thinking it was just a cold and continuing with daily routines—Catherine remained observant and concerned, as sickness was rare for him. Recognizing the approaching holiday weekend and the importance of timely care, she suggested a visit to urgent care if he didn't improve by Friday. True to her caring instincts, Catherine accompanied him the next morning, ready to support him through uncertainty. Their trip revealed the seriousness of his condition, as he struggled upon arrival and was not immediately admitted. Catherine's story highlights her profound sense of responsibility and dedication to those she cares for, especially in difficult times. About The Host:  Steve Reiter is the founder of the Never Alone Project and the host of its podcast, "Every Patient's Right, Ending Isolation and Healthcare." He lost his wife to forced isolation on May 19, 2020, and believes no one should die alone. The show delves into the significant issue of forced medical isolation that began in March 2020, examining its profound effects on patients and exploring ways to balance essential medical care with the nurturing human contact that aids healing and recovery. Steve's dedication to this cause highlights his commitment to advocating humane treatment in healthcare settings. Share your story, learn more, listen, and subscribe at:  neveraloneproject.org