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EPISODE · Apr 22, 2026 · 54 MIN

Celebrating 10 Years of Marriage - Not the Anniversary Trip We Expected

from After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings

Deep breath, friends. This is one of THOSE episodes; the kind that starts off light and then shifts into something a little heavier, a little scarier, but ultimately really important. This episode was supposed to be Kristin and Tyler sitting down to chat about 10 years of marriage. The lessons, the growth, the things we’ve learned along the way. We even brought our podcast equipment all the way to Palm Springs. But before we could even sit down to record it, our anniversary trip took a turn we didn’t see coming. I walked outside… and found Tyler bleeding.What’s next was an ambulance, hours in the hospital, and a moment that split everything into before and after.Not to scare you, but because it led to something we didn’t expect: clarity. Because when something like that happens, your brain doesn’t go to the argument from yesterday. It doesn’t go to the tone, the tension, or who was right. It goes to one place: please let this person be okay. And suddenly, everything you thought mattered… doesn’t. So this episode changed into something deeper.Yes, we’re still sharing the 10 things we’ve learned in 10 years of marriage, but through a completely different lens. The real one, the one that shows up when all else falls away.In this episode, you’ll walk away with:* 10 honest, unfiltered lessons from 10 years of marriage (the real ones, not the fluffy, Instagrammable ones)* Exactly what to do in conflict: including how to make a “bid” that actually de-escalates things in the moment* The biggest mindset shift that instantly changes how you show up in your relationship (hint: it’s not about fixing “us”)* Practical ways to communicate better, even in stressful, reactive, or heated moments* A deeper understanding of what actually matters… and what you can finally let go of* What to do when your partner is being their hardest to love* Why the small, everyday moments matter more than the big onesBecause we all move through life assuming we have more time to fix things, to say what maters, and to show up differently. But guess what? We don’t always get that guarantee. And a moment like this reminds us what actually matters.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Shopify - Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at shopify.com/BLF.Tumble - MachineWashableRugs, MadeBetter. For a limited time only, our listeners get 10% off + free shipping at Tumbleliving.com/BLF #TUMBLE #ADWayfair - Head to wayfair.com April 25th through the 27th to shop Way Day. Wayfair. Every style. Every homeProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Deep breath, friends. This is one of THOSE episodes; the kind that starts off light and then shifts into something a little heavier, a little scarier, but ultimately really important. This episode was supposed to be Kristin and Tyler sitting down to chat about 10 years of marriage. The lessons, the growth, the things we’ve learned along the way. We even brought our podcast equipment all the way to Palm Springs. But before we could even sit down to record it, our anniversary trip took a turn we didn’t see coming. I walked outside… and found Tyler bleeding.What’s next was an ambulance, hours in the hospital, and a moment that split everything into before and after.Not to scare you, but because it led to something we didn’t expect: clarity. Because when something like that happens, your brain doesn’t go to the argument from yesterday. It doesn’t go to the tone, the tension, or who was right. It goes to one place: please let this person be okay. And suddenly, everything you thought mattered… doesn’t. So this episode changed into something deeper.Yes, we’re still sharing the 10 things we’ve learned in 10 years of marriage, but through a completely different lens. The real one, the one that shows up when all else falls away.In this episode, you’ll walk away with:* 10 honest, unfiltered lessons from 10 years of marriage (the real ones, not the fluffy, Instagrammable ones)* Exactly what to do in conflict: including how to make a “bid” that actually de-escalates things in the moment* The biggest mindset shift that instantly changes how you show up in your relationship (hint: it’s not about fixing “us”)* Practical ways to communicate better, even in stressful, reactive, or heated moments* A deeper understanding of what actually matters… and what you can finally let go of* What to do when your partner is being their hardest to love* Why the small, everyday moments matter more than the big onesBecause we all move through life assuming we have more time to fix things, to say what maters, and to show up differently. But guess what? We don’t always get that guarantee. And a moment like this reminds us what actually matters.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Shopify - Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at shopify.com/BLF.Tumble - MachineWashableRugs, MadeBetter. For a limited time only, our listeners get 10% off + free shipping at Tumbleliving.com/BLF #TUMBLE #ADWayfair - Head to wayfair.com April 25th through the 27th to shop Way Day. Wayfair. Every style. Every homeProduced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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