Chains, Culture, and Coming Home: Fiel Sahir on Indonesian American Shame

What does it mean to carry shame in your skin? Indonesian American social worker Fiel Sahir joins DJ for an honest conversation about shame, identity, and faith. Fiel describes shame as "chains" and traces his story as a third-generation survivor of racial violence — a dark-skinned grandfather mocked in China, forced name changes after the 1965 purge, and being singled out as "Chinese," including through the 1998 Jakarta riots. He shares how a multicultural therapist, the witness of Hawaiian Christians, and the conviction that "God is there first" pulled him out of shame toward hope and human connection.Show Notes at erasingshame.com/chains-culture-and-coming-home-fiel-sahir-on-indonesian-american-shame/