Change of Perspective 6: Paternalism and the “Helping” Narrative – Who Gets to Decide?

In this episode of Change of Perspective, we explore paternalism—when decisions are made for people rather than with them, often under the guise of “helping.” This dynamic is deeply rooted in colonial thinking and still shapes many forms of international aid, development, and even activism today. We question the popular narratives around helping, support, and "giving a voice"—and ask: who defines what help looks like? Who holds the power, and who is expected to be grateful? Our guests share how paternalistic attitudes have affected their communities and why shifting from charity to solidarity is essential for real change. Join us as we challenge the power structures behind well-intentioned help and advocate for a more equitable, respectful approach to support.