Changing Our Thinking as a Caretaker

Summary:In this conversation, Gaye Lindfors shares her journey as a caretaker and how she shifted her mindset from trying to fix everything to seeking God's guidance.She emphasizes the importance of saying yes to God and finding new reasons to trust Him in difficult situations.Gaye also discusses the challenges of caretaking and the need to let go of control.She shares personal stories and highlights the importance of finding humor in the midst of caregiving.Overall, the conversation encourages caretakers to change their thinking and rely on God's faithfulness.The conversation explores the themes of identity and self-care in the context of caregiving.The speakers discuss the challenges of adjusting one's identity as a caretaker and finding ways to maintain a sense of self while caring for a loved one.They emphasize the importance of intentional connection with others and the need to settle setbacks and show oneself grace.The conversation also touches on the idea of starting a movement to encourage women to stop waiting for life to show up and instead show up and find life.Takeaways: • Shift your mindset from trying to fix everything to seeking God's guidance • Say yes to God and find new reasons to trust Him in difficult situations • Let go of control and rely on God's faithfulness • Find humor in the midst of caregiving to lighten the load • Change your thinking and embrace the challenges as opportunities for growth • Caretaking can lead to a shift in identity, and it's important to find ways to maintain a sense of self while caring for a loved one. • Intentional connection with others is crucial for caregivers to avoid isolation and maintain a support system. • Settling setbacks involves confessing and repenting of any hindrances to fully surrendering to God's plan. • Showing oneself grace is essential in the caregiving journey, as it can be challenging and overwhelming at times. • Instead of waiting for the perfect circumstances, caregivers are encouraged to show up and find life in the midst of their caregiving responsibilities. • Starting a movement involves encouraging women to stop waiting for life to show up and instead take action to pursue their passions and purpose.retaking09:56 Finding Beauty in the Challenging Moments14:58 The Importance of Letting Go of Control19:02 Gaye Lindfors' Book: 'Getting My Ducks in a Row and Other Stories of Faith'23:50 Changing Identities and Adjustments28:47 Showing Up and Finding Life33:37 Settling Setbacks and Showing Grace37:05 Encouragement for CaretakersConnect with Gaye: • Website: https://gayelindfors.com/ •  Book: https://www.amazon.com/Anticipate-Gods-Goodness-Letters-Encouragement/dp/B0DFGZFGLP • Amazon Author Page: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Gaye-Lindfors/author/B087K1975R • Social Media: • https://www.facebook.com/GayeLindforsAuthor • https://www.instagram.com/gayelindfors/Connect with Carole: • Website - https://www.thecaretakersjourney.com/ • Social Media -  • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/carolesjourney/ • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/carolesjourney • Book - https://www.carolesjourney.com/book