Charlotte: Second Birth, NHS Birth Centre Birth, Two Miscarriages, Prolonged Early Labour, Retained Placenta, Theatre, Informed Second Birth, Becoming a Doula

 She had two miscarriages, a traumatic first birth, and a husband who said he could never put her through it again. And then she came back, did everything differently, and pushed her son out standing in a doorway on her own terms. Charlotte is a mum of two from Leeds who shares her second birth story at an NHS birth centre on Christmas Day weekend. After a first birth that left her with birth trauma, breastfeeding struggles, and months of emotional recovery, Charlotte decided that if she was going to do this again, she was going to understand everything. She threw herself into evidence-based research, hired a doula for birth prep, changed her midwife at 20 weeks by making a formal complaint, and went into labour armed with a clear birth plan and a husband who finally understood why it mattered. Labour started with gentle contractions at a Christmas nativity play. Over three days of stop-start early labour, Charlotte made her way to the birth centre on Boxing Day evening, spent hours labouring in the pool, and then found herself in transition in a corridor, standing in a doorway, refusing to get on the bed. Her son Noah was born with her husband holding her up and the midwives catching. It was everything her first birth was not. And then her placenta was retained again, and she went to theatre for the second time. But this time her husband and baby came with her, and the people in that room treated her like a person. In this episode we talk about:Two early miscarriages and the lack of NHS support that followedHow Charlotte used research, podcasts, and a birth prep doula to rebuild her confidence after a traumatic first birthMaking a formal complaint to change her midwife at 20 weeks and why it was worth itThree days of stop-start early labour over Christmas and what that was actually likeHaving her waters broken without clear consent during a vaginal exam at 7cmTransitioning in a corridor and pushing her son out standing in a doorway with no pain reliefA retained placenta for the second time and why the theatre experience felt completely differentHow an empowered second birth gave her the reserves to cope with a baby who ended up back in hospital with an NG tubeWhy this birth was the reason she became a doula This episode is for anyone who had a traumatic first birth and is trying to work out whether they can do it again, and how to do it differently. The stories shared on British Birthing Stories are real, personal experiences from real women. I am not a medical professional and this podcast is not a substitute for medical advice. Every pregnancy and birth is different, and I always encourage you to speak to your midwife or doctor about your own individual care.British Birthing Stories shares real, unfiltered stories of childbirth in the UK, from pregnancy and labour to postpartum recovery.These stories reflect personal experiences and should not be taken as or replace medical advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional.Follow us on social: Instagram · TikTok · YouTubeWant to come on the podcast? Get in touch and share your story here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.