Cheating: Would You Rather Know Or Not Know?

People often say things done in the dark come to light, but in reality that is not always true when it comes to INFIDELITY in relationships.  Women often say their intuition will ensure they will know, but that doesn't always mean they will discover it.  Men historically have been known to have a double standard, meaning some will cheat on their girlfriends or wives and expect them to remain through their infidelity, but absolutely will not accept it if she cheats.  The bigger question is if your spouse or significant other is successfully CHEATING would you rather find our or not find out?  What if it was a ONE NIGHT STAND?  What if they are no longer cheating with that person, would you still want to know?  Does it make a difference if you are MARRIED OR NOT?  What if there are children involved?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask.  ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK