EPISODE · Jun 28, 2026 · 28 MIN
Chemistry Isn't Compatibility | Szn. 5 Ep. 3
from Pleasure Project: Sex and Relationships · host Dr. Jenn Kennedy, PhD, LMFT
Most of us spend years learning math, science, and history—but nobody teaches us how to be in a relationship. Yet, we're expected to communicate effectively: navigate conflict, set boundaries, express our needs, repair hurts, and stay emotionally connected.In this episode, Dr. Jenn breaks down the relationship skills that many of us never learned growing up—and why the struggles you're experiencing may have less to do with compatibility and more to do with skill building.You'll learn:The difference between chemistry and relationship skillsWhy conflict is normal (and how to handle it better)How emotional regulation impacts communicationThe role of boundaries in healthy relationshipsWhy resentment often signals an unmet needHow repair conversations strengthen trust and intimacyThe power of curiosity, validation, and direct communicationWhether you're dating, partnered, or reflecting on past relationships, this episode offers practical tools to help you create deeper connection and healthier communication.Because lasting relationships aren't built by perfect people—they're built by people willing to learn, practice, repair, and keep showing up.Connect with Dr. Jenn:Instagram: @drjennkennedyWebsite: Pleasure ProjectWebsite: Riviera Therapy
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Most of us spend years learning math, science, and history—but nobody teaches us how to be in a relationship. Yet, we're expected to communicate effectively: navigate conflict, set boundaries, express our needs, repair hurts, and stay emotionally connected.In this episode, Dr. Jenn breaks down the relationship skills that many of us never learned growing up—and why the struggles you're experiencing may have less to do with compatibility and more to do with skill building.You'll learn:The difference between chemistry and relationship skillsWhy conflict is normal (and how to handle it better)How emotional regulation impacts communicationThe role of boundaries in healthy relationshipsWhy resentment often signals an unmet needHow repair conversations strengthen trust and intimacyThe power of curiosity, validation, and direct communicationWhether you're dating, partnered, or reflecting on past relationships, this episode offers practical tools to help you create deeper connection and healthier communication.Because lasting relationships aren't built by perfect people—they're built by people willing to learn, practice, repair, and keep showing up.Connect with Dr. Jenn:Instagram: @drjennkennedyWebsite: Pleasure ProjectWebsite: Riviera Therapy
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