吃饭AA时，如果有人不随份你怎么办？

How do you react if someone doesn'tpay their share for dinner?GarrickSaitoEach time you go out, when thecheck is presented, say “The bill comes out to $40 including tax and tip.Everyone throw in $10.”Then, be the first to put your$10 at the center of the table. Make sure to bring all denominations so you canthrow in the exact amount required.I think this will send a clearmessage that you (and your other friend who pays) will not be picking up the tab each time in thefuture.If your other two friends cannotafford it, they will very likely declineto have dinner with the group in the future, due to other plans previouslymade. Alternatively, they’ll curb their spending during the week knowingthey’ll have to come up with $X for your weekly get together. I call bullshiton your “they’re always broke” comment. Sacrifices in discretionary spending can always be made in order to pay for obligations.If they can afford it (but were basically taking advantage of you and yourfriend’s generosity), they’ll loosen their purse strings a bit and start payingtheir fair share.If you no longer wish to be takenadvantage of, the time has come to draw the line in the sand.