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EPISODE · Mar 11, 2026 · 26 MIN

Choosing to Stay: Marriage, Growth, and Real-Life Communication

from The Growth Lounge · host Jessica Phillips

What do you do when marriage feels stretched, the day is stressful, and real life is happening in real time?In this episode of The Growth Lounge, Jessica and Chad bring you into a real, honest, lightly humorous conversation from the middle of one of those kinds of days. They talk about why they intentionally take two months away each year, what that time means for their marriage, and how they use it to reflect, reset, and plan for the year ahead so they can show up better together.This conversation also ties together the heart of the previous episodes. It is about learning the art of communication, making room for both togetherness and alone time, and understanding that growth in marriage is not something to fear. When one person grows, it does not have to mean the relationship is falling apart. It can mean something good is unfolding.Jessica and Chad also talk honestly about choosing to stay even in seasons when they both had reasons they could have left. This episode is a reminder that strong marriages are not built by accident. They are built through curiosity, communication, grace, and the decision to keep showing up when things are hard.If you are navigating stress, personal growth, or a hard season in your relationship, this episode will encourage you to lean in and keep going.Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠: jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠www.jessicaphillips.co⁠⁠Thoughts to ponder:Where might God be inviting me to get curious instead of uncomfortable in this season of marriage?What would it look like for me to communicate more honestly and love more intentionally right now?How can I show up better in my marriage in this next season instead of just hoping things change on their own?I am cheering for you!

What do you do when marriage feels stretched, the day is stressful, and real life is happening in real time?In this episode of The Growth Lounge, Jessica and Chad bring you into a real, honest, lightly humorous conversation from the middle of one of those kinds of days. They talk about why they intentionally take two months away each year, what that time means for their marriage, and how they use it to reflect, reset, and plan for the year ahead so they can show up better together.This conversation also ties together the heart of the previous episodes. It is about learning the art of communication, making room for both togetherness and alone time, and understanding that growth in marriage is not something to fear. When one person grows, it does not have to mean the relationship is falling apart. It can mean something good is unfolding.Jessica and Chad also talk honestly about choosing to stay even in seasons when they both had reasons they could have left. This episode is a reminder that strong marriages are not built by accident. They are built through curiosity, communication, grace, and the decision to keep showing up when things are hard.If you are navigating stress, personal growth, or a hard season in your relationship, this episode will encourage you to lean in and keep going.Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠: jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠www.jessicaphillips.co⁠⁠Thoughts to ponder:Where might God be inviting me to get curious instead of uncomfortable in this season of marriage?What would it look like for me to communicate more honestly and love more intentionally right now?How can I show up better in my marriage in this next season instead of just hoping things change on their own?I am cheering for you!

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