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EPISODE · Mar 19, 2026 · 29 MIN

Christian Sex Myths Ruining Marriages

from Go Have Good Sex featuring The Christian Sexpert · host Angela Griffith

What if some of your core beliefs about sex in Christian marriage simply aren't true?For YEARS evangelical culture has repeated the same messages about men, women, and desire: Men are the only visually stimulated creatures. Men "need" sex constantly. And women are supposed to just tolerate it.But when you look at scientific research, Scripture, and real life, those myths start to fall apart.In this episode I'm breaking down 3 of the most common myths and why they are causing harm.You’ll learn:Why the “men are more visual” narrative isn’t supported by researchWhether God actually created men to need sex every 3 daysWhy the Bible paints a very different picture of women’s sexual desireBecause good theology shouldn't lead to bad sex.Resources referenced in this episode:Neural substrates of sexual arousal are not sex dependent by Ekaterina Mitricheva, Rui Kimura, Nikos K. Logothetis, & Hamid R. NooriTo learn more about the 1 Samuel 21 passageIntimate Conversations JournalTo support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love! ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠Book Coaching with Angela Facebook TikTok Instagram YouTube Podcast Patreon CashApp⁠⁠ $TheChristianSexpertNote: These show notes contain external links to products and services. The Christian Sexpert may receive a commission for purchases made through these links.

What if some of your core beliefs about sex in Christian marriage simply aren't true?For YEARS evangelical culture has repeated the same messages about men, women, and desire: Men are the only visually stimulated creatures. Men "need" sex constantly. And women are supposed to just tolerate it.But when you look at scientific research, Scripture, and real life, those myths start to fall apart.In this episode I'm breaking down 3 of the most common myths and why they are causing harm.You’ll learn:Why the “men are more visual” narrative isn’t supported by researchWhether God actually created men to need sex every 3 daysWhy the Bible paints a very different picture of women’s sexual desireBecause good theology shouldn't lead to bad sex.Resources referenced in this episode:Neural substrates of sexual arousal are not sex dependent by Ekaterina Mitricheva, Rui Kimura, Nikos K. Logothetis, & Hamid R. NooriTo learn more about the 1 Samuel 21 passageIntimate Conversations JournalTo support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love! ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠Book Coaching with Angela Facebook TikTok Instagram YouTube Podcast Patreon CashApp⁠⁠ $TheChristianSexpertNote: These show notes contain external links to products and services. The Christian Sexpert may receive a commission for purchases made through these links.

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What if some of your core beliefs about sex in Christian marriage simply aren't true?For YEARS evangelical culture has repeated the same messages about men, women, and desire: Men are the only visually stimulated creatures. Men "need" sex...

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