Civil Discourse - Are You Red Team Or Blue Team?

Mark introduces the topic of civil discourse and reads the definition He classifies it as a worldview topic and asks Jim to chime in Jim tells the story about how he and Mark met and that the original topic of the podcast was going to be civil discourse Jim takes us around the wheel and explains where our worldview comes from. Our childhood and our political views Jim cites the current problem that we have in our country with being decided He also suggests that some of the conspiracy theories out there might likely be true Jim says we all are formed by what's happening in our own back yard. Mark agrees Jim references our wheel again and then asks Mark to share the story that originated the topic Mark says in order to have civil discourse you need to be intentionally civil and kind Both guys agree they are slightly misaligned with regard to optimism and pessimism Jim doesn't think "the other side" is willing to do this. They simply want to be critical Mark asks a lot of questions and stays away from accusations Mark tells his "yard sign" story He responds to 3 Harris/Walz signs his neighbors dropped with his own sign response Mark explains his positions and his take on the political argument landscape Jim jumps back in with his take on our national elections. He likes using the phrases "red team and blue team" He talks about the pandemic and the BLM riots influencing the 2020 election Mark says the division is in pursuit of control. It was purposeful and it worked. He says the blue team is better at the game Mark talks about the political terms that no longer mean anything He cites the difference between knowing, feeling and thinking Jim thinks we no longer vote "for" people, we vote "against" the other guy Mark tries to take the person out of the discussion Jim agrees, but doesn't think people can. Jim uses the word polarization and suggests that younger people don't concern themselves with politics.  They're focused on getting their lives in order. He then distinguishes different generations Marks shares a bit about speaking with his daughters He calls civil discourse "mental gymnastics" Jim sees people changing the topic when they get frustrated Mark agrees and suggests people should just admit when they don't know People who are not able to support their positions are't willing to admit they don't know Mark talks about the importance of speaking up Jim talks about the media. Mark says there is no objective news anymore Jim brings up Johnny Carson and his objectivity because that's what his dad watched before bed time Carson laughed and made fun of both sides Mark says Carson had a singularity of purpose…to make people laugh The guys then bring up the current late night hosts and how biased they are Mark mentions that one group that is bringing us back is the stand up comedians They discuss Bill Maher, Seinfeld and Joe Rogan Mark brings up Jordan Peterson as a great civil discourse practitioner Mark bring in RFKJr and Tulsi Gabard Jim brings up the women of The View and Mark talks about how people love to stir shit. Bad news sells Mark makes a suggestion to the audience about being more intentional regarding being civil He says we spend too much energy on winning and convincing Jim recommends not using people's names. He likes the blue red team approach. He also recommends not watching the news and just repeating talking points Mark recommends to not react to new things immediately. Wait, pause. Allow for context to be discovered Don't make assumptions and get context Jim says you often have to simply stop talking about it Change takes place over time, not in one conversation