EPISODE · Apr 1, 2024 · 56 MIN
Coaching and Therapy, what’s the difference with Rum Fotooki
from The Paradox of Change - There has to be an I before We! · host Elliot, Fifi, Lottie
Fi and Rum discuss various topics related to relationships, coaching, and therapy. They explore the dynamics of conversations and the importance of sharing more in order to build connections. Elliot shares his journey into coaching and his focus on relationships. They discuss the experience of ghosting and the impact it can have on one's self-esteem. They also touch on the concept of perfection versus potential in relationships and the rise of polyamorous relationships. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the differences between coaching and therapy and the importance of setting boundaries. In this conversation, Elliot Burgess and Ron discuss various topics related to coaching, therapy, personal growth, and making a positive impact on the world. They explore the differences between coaching and therapy, the importance of authenticity, and share personal experiences of hardship and growth. The conversation concludes with a unique activity involving a message in a bottle.Takeaways* Coaching and Therapy serve different purposes and it's important to understand the distinctions between the two.* Authenticity is crucial in personal growth and making a positive impact on the world.* Key moments of hardship can lead to significant personal growth and transformation.* Engaging in activities that promote self-reflection and connection can be meaningful and impactful.Fifi: https://www.instagram.com/fifisclif?igsh=YzlnazI2bXp6Zmpo&utm_source=qrRum: https://www.instagram.com/itscoachrum?igsh=MW5lNjE0Z2h6NWZuZg==Chapters00:00Introduction and Small Talk01:28Sharing More in Conversations03:03Purpose of the Podcast04:36Journey into Coaching06:27Focus on Relationships07:36Performance Coaching vs. Relationship Coaching08:21The Power of Writing and Blogging09:08Understanding Core Beliefs10:25The Experience of Ghosting12:29Overinvesting in Early Relationships20:20Fantasies and Falling in Love24:23Perfection vs. Potential in Relationships28:38Exploring Polyamorous Relationships32:13The Impact of Choice in Dating38:02Men's Fantasies in Relationships41:00Curiosity in Coaching and Therapy45:14Coaching vs. Therapy48:56The Importance of Neutral Language in Therapy53:26Coaching vs Therapy56:22Key Moment of Hardship58:26Making the World a Better Place59:49Message in a BottleHow to find us: https://linktr.ee/theparadoxofchange
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Fi and Rum discuss various topics related to relationships, coaching, and therapy. They explore the dynamics of conversations and the importance of sharing more in order to build connections. Elliot shares his journey into coaching and his focus on relationships. They discuss the experience of ghosting and the impact it can have on one's self-esteem. They also touch on the concept of perfection versus potential in relationships and the rise of polyamorous relationships. The conversation concl...
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