Coi Leray: Girls Is Players Too

What is up daddy gang it is your founding father Alex Cooper we call her dad daddy gang I am so excited for today's gas. She's a rapper a singer and all around amazing performers You also probably know her from her song players, which I'm obsessed with I feel like at the anthem of summer Everyone is singing it everyone obsessed. You've just came out with your new album congrats. You're thriving.

Thank you. Coiler a welcome to color daddy I'm so happy to be here. I don't understand like this is so fire. This is so so exciting first of all your outfit dude Thank you.

You showed up. Thank you. I just put a little ooh You know we're kind of color coordinated to which we didn't intend to do no So I was actually gonna wear some D or sneakers Mm-hmm, but then I have like a huge closet and I tend things tend to always get lost so I look in the corner I see a little furry things I'm like I've never got to wore them and then it matches like the purple in my pants Yeah, and then the blue and then I don't know I've really put it on and it came out really good. It's a statement I love it.

I also love it so much shows up like crazy shoes. Yeah, I was looking at the candle I'm like hopefully we don't burn on fire. Everything's fine. We're good.

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I feel like finally, you know, I I work so hard I feel like I work so hard and I always get underestimated a lot and It feels good to finally have a body of work to my full potential and just out there Normally, I'm always worried about content and just roll out and stuff, but the music is so good that I'm like I'm gonna let the music live here So that must be such a nice feeling like finally working to be like I actually don't have to oversell over promote I don't have to convince people like you play that shit And it's great. Yeah, because that will like drain you I was at one point in my life You know, I've been signed for four years and it drained me always worrying about it hit or worry about if the next person's gonna like this I like that like now. I'm so like Can I curse? Yeah, I'm like so fuck you like I don't I'm it's koi's world all the way I love it.

How would you describe like the vibe of this album? Um koi, you know me koi's my first name Lorie is my middle name. So you know my artist name is my my birth and I don't know I feel like all the legends with the self-titled albums It's like serious and I'm so versatile that like I just wanted to show every single side of me whether I'm singing wrapping You know, we got black rose with some drums on there and Man's world very very R&B and just pain and soulful. So yeah, and then spend it with saucy Like I love fashion week.

I love fashion. I feel like I'm a fashion girl So I had to have my fashion girl song in there. So yeah, no, it's no there's so many different vibes in the album Which I think is not for me personally. That's what I always want I was like I'm going on a journey.

Nothing all sounds the same It's really incredible I'm interested to know also from your perspective because you can brag a little bit here like what do you think it is about your Artistic presence that has everyone so obsessed and in love with you. I feel like Since I started like when I first came out with GA in or hoodie I've always been shooting myself. I I was twisting my own braids My parts weren't even straight when I first started like my braids were just like take it out braided and they were this small Okay, and I didn't care. I would just go out and give them energy I feel like something that you really don't see especially around the ever when it was all about how you really look I feel like in you know, especially in a culture when it comes to the female and black woman and hip hop it was like Whole thing of how you're supposed to look so when I came out and I just totally went against the fucking rules I guess whatever you want to call I was like now.

I don't care. I'm coming out a hundred percent me my hair is not long I don't wear makeup. I don't have the sexiest clothes, you know, I was very very tomboyed It's still on 26 now, so I'm just growing into a woman in my you know sex symbol. Of course always been but you know Clothes are just a little tighter and a little less close But um, yeah, I always had this confidence of just like a heart of a lion.

I'm a tourist as well So that plays a big big part love love um You've said in the past that you want to write songs about men the way that they write songs about women Yes, I'm like all I do. Yeah. Thank you so much koi. We need that Yeah, how did you decide to even take that approach?

So I'm from Jersey I was born in Boston. So all my family on my media family all my family was in Boston I was born in Roxbury, but my um me and my brothers and my mom moved to Jersey So I have my little family in Jersey But growing up being so close to the East Coast there was a boogie and a boogie is so fire and I remember when he came out Like first came out and he was just so real and raw and the stuff that he would talk about was crazy We talk about the girls. He would really be like talk about you know his relations What he was going through and the way that it's this one song he'd be like he says it a hundred times He'd be like, I don't trust bitches. I don't trust bitches, you know trust bitches.

I don't love bitches Don't trust bitches like he said it's like 20 times on the song I'm like oh shit, and I'm singing it. I'm like I don't trust And it's also good. I'm like now. I feel this.

I know the guys are feeling this right now I need the girls to feel this just as much as the guys feel this it's so true like even when you think about like fuck bitches Get money. Yeah, it's all this shit of like we get fucked up They just right they get their bag and we're like oh we're the bitches over here. So it is really refreshing even just like players It's just like yes You're like spinning the gender rolls on its head a little bit and they're like no we're also players too, which I love It's crazy because now like if you know the guys will be like yeah like those girls as players too, right? And I'll be like You're a man say it.

You're like, uh, yeah. Yeah, yeah It's not for you to say but sure um okay, so you kind of mentioned your family and I thought that's so interesting you grew up with five brothers Yes, you're the only brothers my fifth one is babies, you know, so he's like probably seven now. I think so yeah Okay, so four basically around you growing up and you are the only girl. How did that affect you growing up?

Um, I was always a tomboy. Um, you know, I always got my hands dirty. I was never into girly things at all I remember my brothers used to play like drowned me as I learned how to swim They used to like throw me in the pool. I could not swim.

It's like torture I could not swim for I didn't even take my first swimming class So they would literally throw me in and like save me so I should have whatever like they'll feel like life in guard So I'll never forget like life was like was different going up We was it was knocking beehives off and again. I was the only one getting stung like yeah It was one of those things I love how you also start that by being like so they would play this game where they drowned me That's not a game coin. That's not a game. They get to drown you and be the saviors and you're just like the object My mom cursed them out, you know, but it made me stronger.

Honestly now I'm probably one of the best swimmers ever There you go. You can do backflips. You can do a crazy. I can race.

I'm ready to race anybody. I'm going One of the Olympics, okay. Albums done. Now we're training for the web out of here It's so interesting because you kind of can get that vibe like I grew up I only have one older brother, but I lived on this like little cul-de-sac and it was all boys all the time playing games And I was one of the only girls and it does kind of affect you in a way like I hated pink I review look at the studio now, but it's like it's actually still very subtle.

It's not it's not so like yes Even though I love to get a little girly now though That's what I think it almost like took me a little bit to love the girly side of myself because you don't want to be girly around the boys No, at all, especially when you're cute. Absolutely. You're cute is fun. Oh my god.

I always hung around the boy So me I was like a little like Tom boy for real like I thought I was one of the guys because I did not want them to look at me In a certain way I really didn't but but also to the guys respecting me and I was such one of the guys that they would be like girl Please right I remember when I first started growing boobs and whenever I would play with the guys Like I didn't want to like look like I had boobs I'm still wanting you and then all of a sudden that shit just popped and it was over I was hoodies and slips exactly um I'm interested to know because I have an older brother Did you ever have a similar issue where did your brothers ever try to hook up with your friends or the other around? Did your friends ever try to hook up with your brothers? Um, I was I would probably meet on hook up with their friends because I was the young my brothers are older than me So I'll see the boys from around be like damn But my brother doesn't go for that. They find out that you like did you ever hook up with them?

I would tell them I'll be like we're me and my family are crazy. I'll be like whoa your friend Johnny Bravo looks good boy. He'll be like Yeah, uh-huh now I keep him wait now You won't see Johnny come over ever again I actually can relate to that I did try to hook up with my brother's friends And I remember like trying to sneak out just like make out with one because my brother made out with one of my friends And I was like fuck you like I will ruin your life. I'll hook up with your boss.

We were close We were so close but when it came to that age where we started to hook up with each other's friends That's where it got like he's the older brother and I'm younger sister and I couldn't have fun But he could have fun. I'm like, did you just buck one of my friends? Your brother fucks your friends is your friends. That's a great question I think it's the level of closeness to the friends I think my friend should well I would I could tell my friends like my brothers immediately So I will obviously tell them straight up like no, bitch We not we're not doing that.

Uh-uh. Let me find I'll catch you looking at my brother one one time Let me find out I'll be like and I'm the only girl I probably was a little jealous of something like that And because it's like I don't want the drama because then you two are gonna like not like each other at one point And you come over for family. You can't sit at the table with my brother anymore because you fucked him Yes, okay, and you guys get into it now you're in your feelings. Yeah Yeah, I think I'd be more mad at my brother in the initial, but then my friend I'd be like, well, you just fucked it up now.

We'd have played it at your house. Yeah, you're a hoe Now we're going to your house, okay, god Because you have older brothers, I'm also interested to know like what's your mentality? Like are you confrontational? Or do you not like to be confrontational?

Like what's your vibe with drama? I remember like my brothers were very aggressive and we would play like cops and robbers and all kinds of stuff Basketball and I would I'm so athletic. I wasn't in a basketball. I was going to be more football But I was very athletic and I realized when they would get angry and fight like or when I would get angry and fight I could not win they were so much stronger than me like and and we were all like they didn't care if we're mad We're mad and um Yeah, I realize I can't be no boy.

I cannot be no boy. So I kind of just I respected them Yeah, I feel like I respected them and we kind of were all growing up And it was a different environment for all of us So I feel like it was important for us to kind of stay together Yeah, what are you like with women like if you're getting in a fight with a woman? What's wrong? So I always say like I if I grow as sisters, it probably would have been chaos because I was ready to go against my brothers Even though I knew I couldn't beat them I was still ready to go in their face just as much as me I just wouldn't go so far like I probably would have made a smoother drowning Yeah, exactly unless I'm drowning so I um, but I always told myself if I had sisters, it probably chaotic I don't know how people deal with a house for the girls.

It's crazy It is so crazy because like it is annoying to watch like how guys can just settle things like even watching reality TV recently I'm watching the guys on love island. It's okay, bro. Like yeah, you fucked her behind my back, but like we can recover girls It's like it's fine And then you're like concocting a whole plan of how to kill each other and like scream. It's just a different vibe It is it is I feel like guys to like where it's like there's this thing where like let's just fight and then But after and then now it's like without bro like no grudges.

Yeah, I don't know. I guess it's uh It's a different way that we deal with like how we go about things It's probably better on our end because emotionally we're getting it out. We're actually getting to like we're resolving things Yeah, it's okay, and then they're crying in the corner. Yeah, okay talking about dating I'm interested to know have you ever had a girlfriend try to steal a guy that you were either dating or you were into no because I never like my circle was Okay, I'll probably when I was like 16 when I was 16 But as now my circle is very small and I have mostly guys and all my friends are also gay as well So like, you know, um, I didn't really ever have that problem.

Yeah, no I remember I was trying when I was writing that I was like trying to think that that ever happened to me And I was like no and then I remember in college. I had my best best friend in college I was obsessed with this guy freshman sophomore year obsessed and I would talk about him all the time And she would always put him down like no, he's ugly like he's not even that cute like you like him Like I'm like always shitting on me like verbally just shitting on me to the point where I was like, okay I guess I'll move on after two years and then I found out she fucked him. Oh, that's so corny Oh, I went out of beer. Oh, like it kind of comes out like bitch It hurt my feelings where I was like was it strategic that you wanted me to not like him?

So you could buy you telling me how awful he was to do slowly be like he's actually not that awful And then you went and fucked him. I was always that friend to give them the benefit of give everyone a benefit Yeah, I'm like I I see something and also tell was always that friend that or that girl I'm attracted to like what I'm attracted to like I really like what I like like it's I don't have a certain type Like I might really catch you off guard and be like damn he's you're like and yeah I'm like I see that so if a girl's like not he's ugly or he's this or he's that I'll be like See what I see and whatever girl because I don't care like you got worried about that So right I'll just go do it you're good. Yeah, but that's like full. Do you believe that friends and benefits can work?

No I feel like it's either it's either gonna be friends or we're gonna be fucking No, I don't think we could be fucking in being friends at the same time It's kind of hard as like me. I'm I get emotionally attached like you know and then it might be so good Then what like I don't want anyone else to have right and then after you're fucking then you can't be friends And then we can't be friends. No, I want to marry you. I'm a I'm a relationship I want a relationship, you know anybody that I am single and I'm dating But you know someone if I feel like this is like the one Then we should lock in on that level and just kind of focus on us.

Um Yeah, cuz I'm also like I could please myself very very well. I'm gonna lie. You know, I could I could go a couple I know how to leave them once when I was I'm thinking like I could please myself very very well So I love that. Yeah, we need more of that energy for women.

Yeah, like too many women are like well I haven't had dick in a week. I guess I gotta like put up with the asshole. I'm like girl Do you have your vibrator in your fingers? It's something you could do anything like you could just I I love pleasing myself.

I'm not gonna lie. I feel like it's something I started I started doing a lot of masturbating recently I'm within this year. I would say because it's just like I'm so busy And I get turned off so fast But I do like sex too though. Like I'm a big freak.

So wait, so did you not masturbate before this year? You're just saying you're doing it more I was massive. I masturbated before but I feel like I'm not I'm more like into myself this year I probably do it more this year. Wait, talk to me about that Yeah, cuz you know like I started going to the sex door.

I never really went into the sex door I feel like I'm getting older too. So this is me tapping into just a different like I don't know but I go to the sex door I'm checking out different vibrators before I would just kind of be like I let me just get the one that normally anybody would get but this time I'm like seeing which one you're perusing the aisles Check it out. Like let me see if this is gonna turn like how this turns and how this is connected this way and setting Yeah, and you know, that's when I realized like I found my build though that I really loved like I you know And describe it to me. Is it just a dildo or is it like the rabbit thing where also is the claw coming out?

It's it has like a it's like this. Yeah. Yeah, it has a claw So it's like it's like shaped like this so it's going in and then it's hitting your clip and it's hitting my yeah Titting my and if you like turn it this like it's hitting my butt too Yeah, my my ass so and I like my ass a like I like my ass too So I was I would just use it in the vibration for some reason to just work the right away so different that I'm like oh shit Because I've used vibrators before yeah, and it was like I don't know. I want I rather I was like I rather the real thing.

Yes, you ever had that like you use vibrators Whatever toys and you're like I rather the real thing Well, I feel like that too because if you don't find the right one I've had it before where I'm just like you're almost trying to get the vibrator up to your speed of yeah I want you to do this with me and I like want more Yeah, and then that just means you need a different toy And like I remember the first time I found this one that was a rabbit and I was just like I don't think I ever needed another dick in my life Yeah, cuz sorry I can't say but like it's like he's like I have to go away for like a month filming a movie I'm like so long like Bob actually it really is it's a different experience But I got it's like intimidating to some women at first because you're right like I used to go into the sex door And was literally like head down. Yeah, didn't want anyone to see it. Yeah, it's a sex door It's a sex door and we're a woman like we should be able to please ourself I feel like also to a teacher's you more about your body and totally and I don't know I'm probably gives you more confidence as well Like I love it. I don't I'm not against it I love sex as well, but I think that like if you're one of those girls who just wants to try lightly Stay focused and not be all in the mix just grab you You know I'm saying if you wanted them ones and you know that way you got options with the bill though Stack your nightstand lube a couple different vibrators Even when you're like masturbating and you can switch it up and you take like the dildo out Then you go to like the clip thing you're like you're all over the place Yes, you're just like it's basically like you're switching positions.

I don't use lube though You don't I never use lube now. I feel like I do sometimes depending on like the time of the month Like sometimes I almost feel like right after my period I'm like a little more dry So I'm like oh like I want it. I need like a little baby dot and then I'm like whoa here We go but it depends on time of the month. I'm I I'm okay So I can't have sex if I'm dry So if I'm not getting wet then it's a problem and then I don't want to do it because then it's creating friction and shit And I'm good off that right.

Why would you turn a guy down if you're about to have sex and you can't get wet I would just be like it's not going in Like what are we doing here? Like it's like they should be slipping and sliding like I wouldn't even want him to play with me because it's wet like I think about it's like oh this shit is dry as hell like it Now I'll be like because of you like no so I you got to get me wet I'm a big foreplay person and then also to spit does the job. It does. It does do the job We can just say right there spit does the job a lot of things can play as lube but like spit specific It's perfect.

So you're single you said yeah, I'm single. How long have you been single for like almost Seven months now maybe six seven months. How's it going? It's good.

I um I tried some celibacy for a couple months. I was like seven before four months and think yeah, you know, but it's good I feel like I'm dating. I I met this guy. He's so cute and he's so sweet, but you know, they're all cute and sweet in the beginning and the beginning and then it's Dementors.

Yeah, how did you meet him? Um at a party. Oh fun. Yeah, it was very organic That's so nice because I bet it's like kind of weird for you now where you're like you have to meet people either like organically Like you're not going on the app so it's like through more social media Like we're not nowadays everything is like to do with the empty stuff, but now we met in person It was like really cute.

You said like you have a type you don't have a type. What is your type? I just like a man like I also started realizing I like older men. Um Yeah, I like I like I'm a I like a I'm a little aggressive.

I would say you know a little alpha. I take care of my family I work my ass off. Um pay my own bills got my own money like very very successful for myself So I need a man to come in and just like, you know over not overpower but yeah It's called me like yeah, lift me up and kind of I'm willing to learn Um, I'm always the one teaching so I'm just really into somebody that has a really strong powerful mindset That shit turns me on so well. I'm not and then I like hygiene.

I've been on hygiene. You gotta be clean So be old and have hygiene. Yeah, and we know what you say old Not old but broke or what are we doing? They're about to die.

No, okay, so the oldest I'll probably go. I'm 26 I'll probably do like 30 seven 38 30. Yeah, that's perfect. That's like perfect for me.

That is perfect. That's the 10 years older Yeah, I think so like 10. Yeah, that's what my partner is right now 10 nice I also feel like men are like a little slow to mature. So like we have to like equate for that little age gap issue Like you wear mature wear mature, but I I love that for you.

Also. I agree with that I feel like it's really hot when you're constantly being the boss of your life and you're having to run shit every day You want a guy that can like be fucking dominant in certain ways and you're not also being like, okay You sit down like oh like take your fucking dick out and you were telling them what to do just like you were two minutes ago Your entire team like I don't want to be the one to like It's all right girl views. You know what I mean? Like if the nipple pops nipple pops or a little everyone's happy Things looking great no nipple though, but what was the question?

So like I just was commenting on I agree with you like the vibe of having someone that's like more able to be dominant If you're such a boss that it's like I need someone that can like actually equal me and I'm you're not like treating them like a little boy No, and not treating me like shit, but also just empower me and teach me and guide me and um I don't know. I like fun too. Like I'm a nature girl Like I'm trying to go outside and get my hands dirty like yeah take me and I love to eat So I can't stand going on a date and like having to go to root Chris or something because all they eat It's being mashed potatoes and steak like and then what kills me is when they say they don't like sushi It's not a deal break up for me, but it's just like damn How don't you like sushi like how we gonna go to these cute sushi restaurants if you're not going to order in the The the bang bang shrimp and the teriyaki chicken Yeah, the california like no my brother just doesn't like sushi and I looked at my his head Look at me right now. You're single you're gonna be single for the rest of your fucking life buddy If you can't figure out how to swallow a goddamn spicy tuna roll, okay oyster So he's now been going out to eat with me and I'm just force feeding him to be like eat it And just pretend you like it and so now he's like taking girls out to sushi days And like they're so happy when we go like see just pretend that you like it.

It's it's an important thing Jumpera is the good one. I guess that's not like close. Yeah, it's a little crunchier. Yeah, but still no I need I need you to be into food like I want to go fishing.

I want to travel I want to do like go in the wilderness and I want you to be able to build and fix something around the house I cannot scan someone who's just sitting around and just like you know I'm saying working on a phone and shit like that like now like I need to see some can you put a TV up or something? Right like just are building something. Yeah, build something or be the one to call the person like or just be the one to notice it I'm just I'm big on the mind like it would turn me on if some if a man comes in my house Like I just moved and my paintings are on the floor. So it's like if I'm talking to someone he's like, yeah Like we gotta get these paintings up, you know, like Boys like I'm what this is perfect.

Oh my god. You want to hang my paintings? I'm what? He's like, no, we'll we'll have a task rabbit.

Yeah, but you notice. Yeah, I get you're saying like be proactive in like doing shit Yes, don't be a stagnant motherfucker that you're like hello get off tiktok. Yeah, yeah We love tiktok, but like still maybe not for a guy to be scrolling all day Yeah, tell me about your first ever relationship My first relationship was probably like fourth grade. This is boy named Rashard I'll never forget he was so cute I had just moved to Jersey and I'm a little tack and sack and I was like this new girl in the block And um his mom and his my mom and my his mom like mad and I would go to his house like my mom was cool as fuck You know, but she trusted me as well.

Right. Yeah, we were we were but it was like play dates. Like it was like little I guess I don't know My real my next I guess I wasn't in too many relationships growing up But yeah relationships are just this is my advice for relationships. Show us um I think that you should go with your gut, you know, I'm one of those people that feel like yeah You gotta take time to build but also to like if you really feel like this is it go for it Right away don't waste no time.

It's never too early for nothing, you know, and um also to As a human being like it's okay to be physically attracted to someone like, you know, have sex have fun, you know, be safe Have sex like obviously them to be out there going crazy, but you know normalize Just being a human being in and don't go looking for love because you won't find it That's that's a fact like you will not find love if you're looking for it If you're just focused working and doing what you got to do somebody will pop up and be like And I feel like with this move for you just like popped up How long has it been only like a fucking week? Actually like the most exciting time is when you're like at that week marking like they can do no wrong They're so cute. They're so perfect Yeah, and then like if we catch up in a month and like oh that I can't fucking go on and then yeah, yeah, exactly I'm like, but hopefully I don't know I really like this amazing How would you describe your approach to dating like are you straightforward? Do you play a little bit of games?

Are you shy? Like I'm not shy at all. I'm very straightforward. I'll get to the point.

I'm like, what's up. You got a girlfriend Hey, hi, baby Like that has that always worked for you? Um Probably not. Yeah, I'm a busy person.

Yeah, so I'm really in my like I'm precious about time Do you usually only talk to one guy or do you usually have like a couple people in a rotation? I wouldn't be like fucking multiple guys at one time That's something I can't do but I would talk to guys Yeah, because it's like you gotta keep your options open You gotta keep your options open one thing about these guys they keep the options open But like you don't want to be fucking all your options That's something you don't want to do, you know And it feels good when someone's acting up and you like all right like you really trying to play me right now like Because this one over here is probably willing to do it all for me and you're over here playing like okay Like okay, like you're trying to take me to Ruth's Chris Yeah, like he's taking me to Matsuisa So what the fuck is it? We're going to sushi and you're taking me for a take a match? I don't think so That's funny because I think back to when I was like in the dating game very heavy And I used to talk to so many guys and would have like a rotation or a roster Whatever you want to call it But I would get so stressed because I would have like in the beginning days Like a couple really good banger stories that I would always tell that like this makes them like think you're funny And this one makes them fall in love But then I would forget who did I tell that story to?

So I started doing notes at I'm not kidding you going I started the notes out And I'd like I already told like the college blah blah story to this one and I would have a note top of which one Because then you get your shit It's like a whole time job No, you want to know what I learned on TikTok girl She she was like yo, she puts all her like guys that play like play She puts their dude. She'll delete like they're the conversation that's excited and put their name as a coffin So I put all my guys in a coffin like so when someone texts me, I don't know who the fuck it is So I don't even respond because it's like you're dead to me like you're out Yeah, and it was like a perfect trick. TikTok we lit sometimes What gives you the ick? Yeah, I hygiene for sure like you got to smell good number one number two I don't like the ankles out Like I really don't like I eat when the ankles be out and the pants cut off like right here Like I'm just I don't appreciate that You know, I feel like everybody should be able to get their pants tailored like when things don't fit me I add a couple things to the bottom or you know cut a couple layers off on the top But like I feel like they should do the same thing They need to put a little bit more effort into making sure that they're close I think also objectively like men's ankles are not as cute as women's ankles, but they wear the ankle socks So it's like what are we doing like oh my god I don't like sneakers and ankle socks and then their jeans stop like right above Yeah, and I can see the little like hair and then they're like ankle.

I don't like that Yeah, you're just like get it together. Yeah, I don't like a boot like I don't like a boot I'll take a boot over an ankle. Yeah. Okay.

That's good to know What is the most cringe thing a guy has said or done to get your attention? Uh, they do a lot of cringy things like just being like I don't like when you come to whisper in my ear all hot and wet Like like I've been in clubs multiple times and it's like even if we talk I don't mind you coming and talking to me But like the whole like It's moist. It's moist. I be like, oh my god.

I don't like that. I don't like that. Like I'm gonna goosebumps Just like you can just back it up. Yeah, let's talk like we can literally because I can give great eye contact We can literally just say right here and just talk to me you can even come a little but the ear like when it's wet Right.

What's your go-to move to get a guy's attention? I don't really have to get a guy's attention Yeah, I don't think I don't think I ever think about getting a guy's attention. I just get it Um, I love that. I'm really that girl like I have to tell myself that every day like I say that being humble All the girls should feel like that always tell yourself like you're that girl But yeah, no, I don't I don't have to get it.

Yeah, can you give even more advice on that because I feel like Everyone watching this most girls are gonna be like koi I fucking wish I woke up and was like I'm that bitch. I am the icon Yes, no one's gonna deny me like how do you get yourself when you're even in party settings when there's so many beautiful people around How do you be like? I don't give a fuck. I'm gonna get what I want.

I feel good. Okay, so I feel like ladies Here's some tips looking at some real tips, right? So I feel like people will be a little insecure about how they look like some girls be like oh, you know I've had friends talk about their cheeks and have the most beautiful cheeks in the world Their nose their forehead their chin their fucking, you know all of us. We all even I do it myself like I'll talk about you know My boobs and my certain shit.

I'm like damn. I need some bigger titties to fit this shirt or whatever So feel on yourself, you know, like really feeling yourself get in the mirror of practice your sex appeal Like I don't practice like it's a thing where if you don't feel like you naturally have it Find ways to find it because once you body that sex appeal when you feel like you have that in that confidence girl Guys will fuck a tree. Okay, don't know anything with a hole in it So they will it would be amazing to have a beautiful woman just who embraces herself loves everything about herself and just has this confidence And is able to just capture you in a way where we're like oh Like this is something about her that I just can't stop thinking about so Yeah, it's really like who gives a fuck what people say and really feel yourself No, I love that advice too because I feel like it doesn't matter if you don't have what like other women you compare yourself to having You're so unique and if you also walk into the room with that energy and you're so confident It actually does people look at you like what the fuck does she know that I don't know because she's looking like she's having the best Times and like why not why don't we just enjoy ourselves? Right time and have the best sex and enjoy our sexuality rather than feel like I wish I could be like that girl me that girl Just be it just be it just channel it.

It's so it's so easy. Once you master it. It's like something that you can't go out Take it. Yeah Have you ever been cheated on?

Um, yeah, I have I feel like cheating is Comes with so many ways and it's not fun but it's also Something I really teaches you a lesson because I realized like as um You know, I mean my father and have the best relationship growing up you feel me So I would say I'm like one of those girls that have daddy issues or had daddy issues had daddy issues Um, so You know dealing with different people and learning as I get older is me really just figuring out what I want You know what I mean and At the time when you get cheated on it's like, okay This just isn't it clearly so it's time to just move on and go on because if he's not like making you that person Like that priority and he's brave old fucking other hoes and being a dog then girl You have any men out there that will treat you and it's not even how many men there's that man that she's gonna fall in love with You know, probably meet another guy that would cheat on you another guy might do you dirty but At the same time every single guy like will get better because you know you learn from your last relationship because you're picking Yeah, and I also feel like um, it's a positive way to look at it. You know I prepared you for your next bitch basically So if you you know your next bitch should thank me because if you go in that next relationship Or you go into that next situation whatever she don't you don't learn the lot, you know from even just cleaning your damn ass and shit So I'll be like you're welcome. I put me in this earth to do go ahead and just teach me the best I could be Just be a great, you know change the world. I'll make the world a better place um in your relationships You mentioned your relationship with your dad How did that manifest like did you start to see themes of like what you were trying to basically like figure out within your relationship with your dad and playing Mountain romantic relationships.

I would just try to find Like I wouldn't know what was good or not, you know, I know like my dad always smelled good. He was a hustler He got money. He he was clean. He was fly.

So I knew that's what I kind of was into and my brothers also was on that type of time too um But I didn't really know like I guess the true meaning of love like how to be loved for real You know my mom and my dad weren't really that intimate growing up. I never really seen a lot of affection with them It was more like a lot of arguments more than a more of affection So that that how to be loved and is a thing That's why I'm saying dating an older man It makes sense because I need to be taught by someone who is willing to teach but also not manipulative and you know what I mean? Because it's not like I'm a dumbass very lack on that sense But also, you know, it's a lot that I I'm still learning about men No, I think that makes sense like when you meet an older guy Again aside from them being a scumbag if they're like just going after younger younger women It's more just like you want to be with someone that actually has been in love knows how to move in a relationship knows how to treat someone Right knows what they want that is not going to happen a lot of times with younger men Because they're going to be at the same stage of you Just trying to figure out and you're kind of looking for someone with guidance of knowing like yes No, no, actually quite we don't I don't fucking do that Like we're not gonna have a petty argument We're gonna settle it now because they're like mature and they know what the fuck that they want It makes it easier for you to actually enjoy a relationship and then be your best self You're like oh, this person actually wants to make this work Yeah, rather than like just doing toxic young bullshit like how are we doing this? How are we gonna make this like exactly I rather someone who's really serious with experience that's like serious with experience Um was there when you got cheated on was there any like crazy like how did you find out?

Um, I think I went through Oh, I think at the time. Yep. It's always now the technology. I think I went through a little phone But I don't do that anymore Yeah with my gut was telling me like and I knew it and I and it was it was that's what it was but um What did you do when you found it?

Pest I was ready to She goes silent for the first time You were you're angry like you can't I don't like to be mad because like if I get mad like I don't want to be mad Especially open some shit like that like I'll be putting too much on my all my time. I'm money my just everything into my love my affection Um to get cheated on just corny to me like it's so corny to me So it makes me want to fight but I would never put on hands on to me And but and I'm not a mrs. Get back. You just really it though Like I'm a curse you And then it's like you'll never hear from me again I don't care what you do.

You can send a million trillion gifts. You could try to You pop up my house. You don't make it worse. Like don't come to my house Don't bring you no flowers.

Don't be outside my house like milk is gonna skip a stalk or like you're a duck going You made your bed laying it. I'm quick to cut it and go quick. Yeah, and that's something I always struggle with women Right and they're like I don't know to do like I found out my boyfriend's been cheating on me I always want to stay like I get it some people stay and they can I could never stay personally because I just feel like It's actually not about the act of like cheating It's about the fact that you don't respect me and also that you can clearly lie to my face and be living a double life Um, but I feel like everyone's got to figure out how they handle it But for the most part if you have a gut feeling yeah, he's probably gonna do it again if you take him back They're gonna show up with roses. They're gonna feel like a piece of shit It's also for their ego.

They can then get you back and feel good and then they're just gonna go about it again Because you just rewarded them for coming getting back with them Yeah, I feel like once he cheats it's like at that point Listen, you I'm not taking back a cheater because you already looking for something else You know what I'm saying? You already looking for something else. You already if you've been in something else I don't know what it is. So at that point you have your mind made up You know like you're not sure.

I want to be around nobody that's not sure in the second options in the body You know, okay, we're gonna play a game. Okay, block. We're not I'm gonna give you a little scenario And you're gonna tell me if it makes you want to block them or keep talking to them Okay, a guy surprising you at the studio Are we dating already? No Get the fuck out of here.

Yeah, I'm like yeah In the middle record Hey Fuck you get in now. I want to smoke with the front desk and my security. Okay ugly and picks but hot in real life Mm-hmm. I'm not gonna lie boys.

Do don't be photogenic. So I don't black. Yeah, we'll keep them around keep it rough It doesn't give you his phone password once you're dating. Okay, I don't ask okay has a girl best friend always together black I was this boy talk about you have a female assistant and shit.

They all like oh no Black I don't do that. I'm for that. It's anyone. I know straight up Have your mom be your best friend.

Okay. I don't give a fuck when guys have their best friend their girl best friend No, me or her koya mama koya mama. Uh-huh. Okay calls his exes all of them crazy Made me just it's probably crazy crazy.

I'm mad. I'm kidding him. That's probably true He's probably got some crazy shit. It's probably insane got these girls going crazy as a fire That's true, but that probably means he's a little crazy too.

Definitely means he's crazy. Everyone involved is crazy Everybody involved is okay. I'm crazy. He's a mama's boy.

Whoo Okay, so mama's boys be a little tough Let's talk about it. I don't want to block them. But mama's boys are a little tough. Mm-hmm.

I do like an independent man So I only I love a relationship between a man and his mom, but I like the the saddest I like the the fact that You know financially and like, you know physically and like You know they can make decisions on their own. You know what I mean? Like that's what I mean like I just hope Yeah, and I agree. I think there's a difference between like there's nothing more attractive when you see a guy who is so respectful His mom has a great relationship, but there's fucking boundaries.

So it depends. It depends the level of how intense it's a mama's boy Yeah, I feel mama's boy or is he fully still like sucking off the tip? Yeah, I don't want nobody sucking off the tip Um not open to eating you out in the bedroom. Whoo.

Okay. I that is a vlog. I don't like that We cannot be in a relationship. I dated this guy.

I was in a relationship with the guy He was Jamaican and it was like, you know, he was not he that was just not the thing And we was a one couple months like a month or whatever and I kind of just you know But then I said, look here, sir Listen up. Listen up. This is what you're gonna do Or this is what this is what the fuck it is. Okay.

I don't give a fuck where you came from boy You're gonna eat this Best believe I was better one all over it. Yeah So yeah, so eventually, you know, he end up I guess I feel like I popped his cherry on that and um He fell in love with it. You don't stop that that so it was just like, yeah, that's a no that's a no deal for me Isn't it so crazy one when guys are like expecting you to do swirly twirly gumdrops on their dick with your mouth But then you're like, okay, you're trying to eat me out and he's like You're like use your fucking tongue like yeah, go down. Go crazy.

I think it happened Yeah, I think it's just like my only thought could be that they're intimidated because they're insecure because they don't have to do like We've got an arubic's cube situation going down. It's not as simple as a dick that you're like Oh, this is what I have to live. Yeah, this is a little bit more like some guys can't find the clip Say their life. Oh my gosh But if we are loving about it and be like babe get in here.

Yeah, this is this is heaven down here Come on in like are you crazy? And guys that I just feel like every guy should do it I think it's saying you should do it with passion and probably take a class and learn how to do it too I like it because it's really a key to a woman's heart, you know, it is actually snatch a soul like that's This is because the man I had never had an orgasm in my life until I met my fiance from a guy eating out Oh, wow, I was just clearly fucking with guys that were just like Yeah, I don't like it together. Yeah, like use your tongue as a muscle. Lock it and load it and go for the beeline They couldn't figure it out.

Anyways. Okay, good to go. Um sends random dick pics. I don't like that I don't like dick pics.

Mm-hmm. I don't want to fuck on face time and I don't like dick pics You don't want to fuck on face time. No, right. Why can't we fucking real life?

Just like come on over. Yeah, okay flirts by being kind of mean I don't like that. Oh, oh, I don't like that. You know how guys do that sometimes Yeah, I would have like shit on you and you're like are we in fifth grade.

Mm-hmm. I don't like that No, I like nice guys. Me too has hooked up with one of your friends before No, that's a no, no, I'm kidding that Okay, you said at the beginning that you're free because I was gonna ask like I'm just gonna prove to freak like where are we at quite? I'm afraid Yeah, I'm not afraid.

What do you think that your best skill in the bedroom is? Taking it I'm tiny. I'm a little bit tiny little thing. I could pick it.

What is your favorite position? Uh I like back shots, but I also like writing right and I can make myself come. Oh front or back turn Oh, I'm just gonna just push a little bit right push a little bit and so you would prefer Oh, that's hard. I wonder reverse cowgirl or on top staring at them if you had to pick one Um, I like staring at them I like to like With my hair around like when I was out of hair and wings and braves and stuff even now like I'll still swing my hair and just You know, I just I just wing up a swing my head I'll swing the head I'll swing and just like I just like I like to look I like contact I like to feel like I'm making love.

That's why when you know, it's important like when I'm fucking with somebody I'm fucking with somebody. Yeah. Yeah, what is the best sex tip that you can give our ladies today? If something you just like know you're good at that they're like, I'm kind of in a rut koi like my sex life sucks I'm not giving what do I do help us Deep throw bitch.

Oh, this was nice, but girl grab it and choke almost throw the fuck up We do it. Okay, because that right there is gonna rail him right on and I was not like the best Not the best. I was always good at sucking dick But I I wasn't in not into it. So it's not something I like doing so it's not something I did So I guess I probably wasn't the best from the bitches.

I really sucked it I would say because that just wasn't me and I hated deep-roading because it's not my thing but um past year That was my ex who had some shit And yeah, and that's when you realize like, okay, like you just you know, you gotta just take it gag reflexes Like you'll learn it all like just And don't look ugly when you fucking do it, bitch Don't roll your fucking eyes back and shit like just close on if you need to As you said that I'm sure everyone's right taking notes and you're like, how do we not look busted as fuck while we're literally getting gagged to the back? No, I agree even if you're just like looked down or just close your eyes or look down the bitch Take that fucking dick. It's gonna hurt. Maybe a little bit.

You should might be sore It might be a little raspy next day. You're gonna be swallowing and be like, oh, but it's gonna be worth it And especially if it's your man, like don't just go out there if you throw in the niggas good school girl Yeah, yeah, don't do that, but but half a it's like you got it. You got it You want to trap him and you want him and he already kind of got you and you guys finally make it to the bed And like you know, you don't have to do it on the first day build up. I never recommend like sucking dick on the first day Anyway, I think I'm telling you I don't like it.

You've got to be my man to be like goggled on I love that because I feel like I used to do the opposite where I would just be insane And I wouldn't fuck them though and then they would be like wait, what what's going on? I'm like, I don't know like I just want to have fun and like I like it Yeah, but like you're not touching me So I think it's like as long as you know your rhythm of like how you like to hold your card Don't give it all up like yes That doesn't mean like don't have sex you can have sex on the first night But like you're obviously not fucking them in the way that you're gonna fuck your like boyfriend Like you're not you're fucking them like oh, this is the first time we're fucking imagine how I'm gonna fuck you when it's yours When it's yours exactly so you don't wanna tease them and have it where I agree. That's fine. How the fuck did you get your throat to prepare?

I just didn't I'm just like Deep breath. There's goes nothing. I just don't block your fucking nose And then like yeah, you know yeah One thousand percent you gotta just kind of just force it You've got to just slowly get in there with a lot of spit and you got to gradually start going going And then you just got to get in there get in there Get in there Have faith in yourself Yeah, you'll do you'll get in there and we get in there as long as you like they love the fact that it touches there So if you just like do it real quick and then gag it and do it real quick and gag it's come back over You want to stay down there for my fucking minute that you're just going down and you can make your noises Have you ever done it this way? It is so crazy.

I've never done that way And I had full vomit coming up It's hardy meal I feel like my fucking neck will probably break them like that Because it's gonna go down like the other way No one time I fucking did it I told the story my pocket like did it once and I'd eaten like all this like French onion soup And it I he went down and I vomited everywhere and all this onion chunks came out on the I wouldn't he say he didn't get any He's he was so obsessed he was like this he was like I don't care He's like I like you they're gonna be like I've cleaned it up for you If they don't like you like bitch get the fuck out Yeah, they're like you can get the cum towel and the throat towel and then you can get yourself your own over I never had experience He's like picking out onion from his stomach He's like it's okay So it was so sweet And now we're engaged That's so cute That's so cute Deep throwing gets too far Yes Okay I want to talk to you about some of the hate that you've gotten online Like you kind of referenced it earlier But you've received some pretty fucking shitty comments about your body specifically One to people that aren't familiar what are these comments and also like How do you deal with a constant comment and fixation on your body? So I've gotten like comments like you're skinny Like a cockroach You look like a boy blah blah blah But um I've been like skinny my whole life And been my whole life So it was kind of something that it was just like knew that was happening since I've been famous Like at first they would never say anything about my size First it was about like my overbite because I had braces and I stuck in my thumb And then it would be about like You know Just my appearance I would say my braids and my parents and just And then it started becoming my body so I started realizing too Like every year they had something to say and every year I leveled up So I kind of just say fuck them I remember it was bothering me like a little bit of Probably like a year ago when um When I felt like it was taken away from my music You know what I mean? I just don't like that Like I'm so talented I'm putting so much into everything I do Like when it comes to my choreo My fucking vocals going in the studio making amazing songs Having all these hit records Um you know just being this fucking bad bitch on everybody's mood board Like a fashion icon doing so many things Like um so many nominations And just you know all kinds of blessings People still find their way to like create this narrative about me being You know small or whatever So it was just more so trying to just fight through that And fighting through that was to keep going Keep showing them how talented you are Like just putting an interface in their face Cause they're gonna Eventually they're gonna be like alright Like bitch we didn't call you skinny a million times What else can we do? Like you're so fucking talented And at the same time There's nothing I can fucking do about my body Like I'm sexy as fuck Like you know there's you know I don't want to change I could change Like I could go and go enhance like whatever I want Did you ever like with all the negative comments Did you ever think about ever doing that?

No no I thought about like looking in the mirror like Damn my ass was flat like my ass was like this big Or my hips were like this big But it was never something that made me feel like I want to look like that It's just like it was a thought Cause you know who wouldn't want like I love big titties I think girls with big fucking boobs are Sexy as fuck I think it's something that I adore I love the jiggly-dense I love the clevelage I love the push-up bras I love the how they look in big t-shirts Like I love everything about a double D triple F You know see whatever cup And I always would be like damn Like if I had titties like that I'll be fucking doing the titty dancing shit too Yeah it's so crazy too I think as women I forget who I was talking about this with We were like how the fuck is there There's never been a trend for like a male body But there's always a trend that's in for You know the female body And so for you getting shit Of like you don't have this You don't have that You're too skinny You're too small I'm assuming But the issue also is So then if you went and got a BBL And you got your tits done Then everyone's gonna call you fake And then everybody will call me fake And exactly They'll be like yo why would you But at the same time Why would I? You know I would say the same thing Like why would you go and get your Cause you know I don't know I feel like again they make girls Especially women in hip hop You know we just have to do a better job I just showcase more Girl like shit Yeah you know I feel like because Sexy all the time And doing a lot of stuff with our bodies And just showcasing and twerking And stuff like that Um it would be good to switch an hour At the time to change these kids mindset And put them in a different perspective Okay let's not just make everything about bodies Let's make it about who could cook now Let's make it about who could fucking fish the best You know who can wear the best sneakers Or who could pop out with You know who can wear the highest heels And not fall like shit like that You know what I mean? Yeah should that you actually like It doesn't actually genuinely affect the way That someone feels Yeah About who they are in the way that they will Yes Because at the end of the day The reason you're getting hate I'm assuming also is because like You don't look like some of the other female rappers in the industry But it's like but isn't that amazing That you have your own identity And then again if you try to conform Then you're fake Then you're trying to It's like you can never fucking win No So just be yourself And I agree it's like Don't try to go with a trend of how you look Like you are the trend Be your own trend Look the way you fucking look And that's it Big trends that are And I don't I'm not against anybody You know enhancing their body as well If you get it botched and fucked up The match is just fucked up But now I'm just like Damn you're fucked But I feel like as long as you're Initiate with like Good intentions having Making sure you're healthy Following the proper procedures Going to someone who's very professional And knows what they're doing Then I support you When talking about it Yeah it's like do whatever the fuck you want It just sucks If why you're doing it Is coming from a place Of people Making fun of you In the way that you look And so You actually didn't even know That you were insecure about it Other people made you feel that way And so then You had to go and do something Cause you felt like So it's like it just sucks Cause most women are doing it Because like society is telling them We don't have this We don't have this way We can never fucking win No But I do hope we're getting to a place Now where we've seen like One trend come in And then the next trend come out And they're so parallel Opposite that you're like Let's all just be good With how we fucking look And that's that I feel like I kind of You know set the tone Especially in hip hop You know For example now It's like me And you know We got Glorilla now She's also very small I feel like she kind of Swipped past the small thing Like they still try to say You talk about her a little bit But her butt is very cute and sexy But I kind of feel like it You know she You know I got it so The girls could get it You know what I mean? Like the small girl The petite girls coming in this Cause they I went through a lot with it And now I feel like they're accepting Just that broadness The organic The natural You know I don't have any lashes on I don't cut my hair off I'm just like Yeah one more thing Yeah one more thing Just listen to me sing And rap That's it That's it Look at my fashion Yeah Who is your dream collab?

This question is hard Cause I have so I'm a fan of so many amazing artists Of course I would love a drink feature He's fucking amazing I've been seeing all his tour videos fire I want a collab with Billy Eilish I think she's incredible I've always been a fan of Billy So good Yee I want a collab with Yee I think he's fire I want to say say Yeah these are all dream collabs Fuck that These are all dream collabs And let's see Uzi I collab with a lot of people that I dreamed of already Yeah no that's amazing That's amazing What is something that you're really excited for That's coming up that you can share with us? I just shot a crazy music video with Busta Oh And yeah he's about to drop a new album It's so dope Because it's like um you know This is the hip hop Shit that I'm talking about That's This video is so major Like anybody that knows Busta rhymes And how crazy he is about his videos He was telling me the story And he was just like He was telling everybody the story about like how Cause you know I'm like You know this He must have been bad on this video It was a crazy production Like it's real Busta rhymes Like a real crazy video from back in the days Like 2023 type shit So he's sitting down and he's like um You know I remember when me, Missy, and Diddy used to battle For the videos And like on You know Missy, Missy would spend like 1 million on the video And I'll be like nah Like I'll get jealous So now I'm dropping 1.3 And then Diddy would come around And he'll go ahead and drop like 2 million And then he's like I had to hit him with the gin and jacks And then hit him with the 2.3 million So Ellie's just like so fired to relook Like I felt like I was Like he was reliving the moment as well Just on a whole other different scale And he still looks good He sounds the same I remember seeing swiss beats pulled up Timberland pulled up ATO Jacob pulled up It was just like a Like okay this is crazy This is cool This is cool as hell This is cool as hell Damn That's such a Probably a cool crazy moment for you too Of just like growing up and like idolizing people Like that And then being like I get to just stand in the same room as these people And like swiss He's like pulling up Soonsie walks in They just came from cutting something in the studio He's already playing the reference on his song Like just over and over again Out loud like They're just so musically inclined And just to be able to be in that Sending with the music video Timberland swiss Like it was just like oh shit And they love me and respect me so much So yeah That is so fucking cool And exciting Yeah For you You're doing so many big things Yeah they have all these festivals coming To shop the album So yeah Just really about to just have like a fucking great year I feel like I've done so much I've been on I have three songs on the Hot 100 Billboard I've dropped an amazing album Um you know I'm in the Hot 100 Most I'm the Hot 100 Spotify artist So there's like Spotify has a top 100 artist And the entire world And I'm like Number 70 or some shit like that Yeah I'm so blessed though It's so dope I'm here forever Last question If someone is becoming A new coilera fan today What do you want them to leave this interview Knowing about you I want them to know that I am just like you Yeah Koi Thank you so much for coming on color daddy The people are going to freak out you're amazing Thanks guys Woo!